Normies' definition of love / friendship:

"I love" means I am temporarily attached to a magic entity or person that gives me security and food for free for as long as they do it.

Also true is this:

When your spouses or friends tell you they love you, they don't mean it even by their definition. Actually, they love the government / the matrix, they just think that you are a hand / feature of that gov / matrix.

Marriage is not between wife and husband. Marriage is a promise of each individual to the government or to religious leaders to play by certain set of rules. The other person in the marriage is insignificant. It is just you and the matrix.