My standard advice for men with marriages in trouble due to the slow descent of typical issues:

Envision the things you would do to put yourself together after the divorce, how you would build yourself to restablish confidence and admiration with yourself again, and then start doing those things now, without any permission from your wife. Literally jump out of bed the following day with a fire under your *ss.

To reinforce this idea, to stop blocking on approval and validation from your wife, read It Takes One To Tango + The Wall Speaks and remember: a rising tide lifts all boats.

You can become better, sure enough, and successful enough in your pursuits to cancel out, completely nullify, any destructive interaction patterns that was destroying your relationship.

You can single handedly restore polarity, admiration, respect, and attraction. You can create a FOMO for you, rescue the marriage, and lead again.

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