care to explain the anomalous two parties involved in auth and count envelopes then? it's an auth... i'm a relay, ok... but i am writing a library to work with both so i have to scan ahead to decide the difference (no i'm not going to decode the whole thing first wtf)

and almost nobody has implemented nip-42 and everyone is racing ahead with nip-44 when there isn't even a reference implementation

honestly, i'll be glad when #hodlbod finally figures out it might be a good idea to make it so his client doesn't connect to nip-42 disrespectors so we don't have our DMs broadcast to the world, cos he's one of the few doing 44 and 42...