I used to do credit counseling many years ago. People would basically pay me to spend and hour reviewing their financial situation and then have 3, 45min followup sessions with them to get back on track.
In the couple years, and hundreds of sessions, one thing was clear.
—They have to WANT to understand and make financial changes.
What you’re describing is, YOU wanting them to make changes for themselves. Not the same.
I think its the same in AA, NA or deciding to lose weight or even a fitness goal.
You have to want to change.
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