So for grains client I have client relays separate from user relay lists (nip65) much like nostrudel HT nostr:npub1ye5ptcxfyyxl5vjvdjar2ua3f0hynkjzpx552mu5snj3qmx5pzjscpknpr but on login the client relays are auto set from the users nip65 list. From there the user can pick and choose relays to interact with the client and it's separate from their actual list. Would it be a good idea to limit the client relay list to 5 relays max? and a notice to the user that they should consider taking some relays off their mailboxes if they have a bunch? or should I let them have a bad experience when they have a million relays in their list?