Just by the way this is why I push back on the people "fighting to make spaces inclusive for everyone"

Bevause those people are lying to you. If they weren't lying, they wouldn't be straight up allowing the systematic bullying of autistic people and then calling said autists "trolls" when they ask why the anti-bullying rule is not being enforced and citing concrete examples of a double standard.

You didn't want an inclusive space. You wanted the power to remove people who disagree with you.