i have to learn to trust my gut instinct more

there are girls on the bus i like more than anyone on a dating site. i don't want to bother. but who knows what they feel? am i bothering? maybe they want to talk. to me? in my experience, no.

i often want to talk to girls or women i see when i'm shopping, but it's not socially appropriate.

but i'm aware that it can be attractive if these rules are broken.

"can"

so, when, then?