I exchange notes here on nostr constantly with people I dislike and I assume they do the same. Taking good ideas from people you genuinely dislike is a superpower.
Not to mention that in time you understand that what you hated in others was just a dark side of you all along. People use noatr for different reasons. I use it because the smartest and the most retarded people I know are here.
I wouldn't worry about adoption since Primal has already set the bar low enough.