I just zapped you both. I'm sorry I don't know enough to be very helpful.
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I see in the wallet not in notifications. I don’t even see this note in notifications. One other thing that could help is just add this relay wss://sendit.nosflare.com
It’s a blastr relay. It will broadcast your notes to many relays. It’s free
You've almost doubled my active relays. Lol I appreciate you, sir.
The ones who are red, are they ever green? If not I would remove those
Roundrock and relayable have been green at some points. I honestly rarely ever check relays. Nostr definitely requires effort and attention to be usable, and that's gonna keep a lot of normies from adoption.