I'm exactly aware of why I'm single and will likely remain forever so. No use whining about it, except occasionally noting on the nostr how being lonely at times is just plain awful.
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Dude. You don't complain like the people in reddit do. You're just being honest and stating a fact of how being lonely sucks. That's just the truth. Depending on the person anyway.
I won't pry. But go out more man! Wtf? You're done with the military, you have a career a good place that isn't toxic, you have a vehicle. Go live life.
Not saying you aren't. But the more you live for yourself, for YOU and not because you are looking for someone.
That's when it hits you out of fucking nowhere.
I know it's hard. And we're only human. But don't give up. You're still young.
Idc what anyone says, as long as you reasonably take care of your self, you ain't old until you're fucking 60 ok
Don't through away your YOUTH.
No, I'm not quite that whiney.
No. Where? When? Spend money for what?
I'm just puttering along, feebly attempting to carve out a little corner of the world to call me own. That's pretty much about it.
I'm not young. I haven't been young since I was about 8.
I'm not 100% on the side of giving up, but it's close. I don't take care of myself. I don't have any youth left.
Oh man, according to Alice, I’m officially old. Hey, old people like being in relationships too! Run fast and loose Beave! Date, experience, fail fast. Eventually a keeper will come along. Stick to your convictions, it’s ok to say no, but it’s also ok to say hell yeah. Probably preaching to the choir, but got to do it anyway. Good luck, or Godspeed as the case may be! 😘
No. No no no. That's not me at all. I'm too slow and steady for all that nonsense.
I'm going through something similar. All I can say is a professional perspective would honestly help me a lot.
Because I DON'T WANT to be this way anymore. Not saying that you do. I'm saying I know how it feels and I understand.
Don't give up. If anything, take breaks instead.
Whatever will be will be. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CcWbZUgymkw