Men need the shakti of woman to make themselves whole. This is the essence of sex magick: male and female meet in conscious divine ecstasy enabling the transmutation from one state to another. The female gives all of her energy to the male who becomes a flame 🔥of gnosis for himself and others. The most important aspect is intent and if the receiver is grateful the giver will give. This way energy is transferred accordingly and not arbitrarily or without intent and vision. Man seeks woman as his divine guide and powerhouse of shakti for without the female and shakti, man is deplete and incomplete. Therefore man is dependent on woman and she is the alpha principle not he. He is the receiver of her shakti principle while she is the giver, hence Lilith who rides Adam and tames Samael. Lilith has the power and Adam submits because it cannot be the other way around as men receive they don’t give. The phallus is the north pole of the compass and a point of reference while the female is the cause of magnetism between south and north. It’s a subtle difference yet very profound and explains why females are the stronger sex and worthy of worship as goddess for without goddess man is either an impotent eunuch or an insatiable sex fiend living as a beast not man. When man acts as giver and not receiver, the female is bound by him and not free to tap into her power (as giver) and both sexes are depleted as in traditional gender roles. With sex magick the female is the boss and the male is either her sidekick or servant, but never her superior. This is the essence of chaos and sex magick in the current age of Kali Yuga.