Your primary job as a husband and father is to systematize an environment of safety, the home, as it relates to modern dangers (food/water safety, clothing/cleaning/product safey, wounds/ailments/infections, defense of physical threats, emergency preparedness, secular culture insulation, political instability, inflation/censorship of savings, unmasking/AI harvesting, feminist/trans craze, convential medicine malpractice, boomer grandparent delusions, digital identity, social credit) and then to pursue meaning allowing for adventure (exciting pursuits where risk and excitement is enhanced compared with the home environment).

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As I have leaned into this duty to systematize over the years, I have learned an important part of it is to shield my wife and children from unnecessary burdens. I am the one that primarily keeps abreast of news, understanding new threat vectors, and thinking through how to make our home more antifragile. I make sure that my wife and I are on the same page as we systematize and that she stays well informed but without discussing every heavy subject or threat I come across. I am careful to protect her from doomerism and instead aim to always cast a positive vision as we refine the household.

An unburdened wife and children are more free to peruse joy and meaning and adventure.

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Great post. Tried to zap and failed. Will try later. Good stuff.