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I’ve definitely been there. There are times when my brain cannot even grasp for words. I’ll be thinking spoon and can only come up with fork or knife. It just doesn’t work. Language is the piece that seems to disconnect first for me. Interesting that it seems to be the same for you.

And if it keeps getting pushed further with questions or problems it literally hurts. This has gotten worse as I’ve gotten older 🫠 and I’ve also come to the belief that no problem is worth getting into that state. When I’m close, I just have to say no. And when you’re working and living with others who have different levels of responsibilities and are on different binge cycles, it’s really important to set and respect those boundaries, IMO.

🤣 I understand it, too - I just try to stick to shorter cycles. If I’m working on something I’m like a dog with a bone… but I’ve learned that if I don’t let it go in the evenings or weekends, I burn out. Supporting multiple clients and having a wide range of responsibilities has changed this for me a lot, too. I have to practice letting go and setting boundaries or I end up not being successful at anything.

Your right to speak doesn’t equate to an entitlement for me to see what you said, if I choose to opt out. I think this extends to likes.

I’m not sure only zaps is for me. I might feel differently if I was getting some insane amount of likes - my experience is not the same as others. However, I think that enabling users to have more control over their experience (as long as it doesn’t force those same choices on others), is ultimately good.

I have a lot more thoughts about the pros/cons of it, and can see both sides. I’ll get to weigh those arguments when deciding for myself how to set my own configurations. But ultimately, I’m pro user choice, and this feature enables more of that.

I wish I could. Whenever I get a new phone or take my case off it seems so pretty. But the rate at which I have to replace cases tells me that my clumsiness makes that luxury not worth the cost 🫠

I ā¤ļø the little prince! And good morning :)

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Some thoughts on "influencers" on Nostr:

I just thought I'd share a bit about the kind of people who have influenced me here, because I believe something different holds value to this community, and because I want to recognize the people who have shaped my experience - the people who have actually influenced me.

#[0] who convinced me to give this new thing a real try, by reaching out within 5 minutes of me being here.

#[1] for making me realize that my best friends would be found here.

#[2] for showing me that truly positive people still existed, and that they wanted to share that positivity with me.

#[3] for answering a really stupid question when I was new and already trying to run a relay, which convinced me to contribute.

#[4] and #[5] and #[6] for showing me that friendship, generosity, and caring were an international language.

#[7] for being a great guy friend, fellow book fiend, and political meme'ologist who made me feel a lot less alone in the world.

#[8] and #[9] for making me laugh at inappropriate times and inappropriate places, which has prompted me to explain what the hell Nostr is to more people than anything else.

#[10] and #[11] for showing me that people here still cared about their craft more than the number of followers their users had.

#[12] and #[13] for being colleagues who both discuss and educate me. I think deeper because of both of your posts.

#[14] for a single comment that made me feel prouder of myself than I have felt in years.

#[15] for posting on Twitter about Nostr - because I might never have found this wonderful place otherwise.

#[16] #[17] and #[18] for my first hell thread, and some really great encouraging words. Well, I think those were Jesus, but you had to be there.

#[19] and #[20] for thinking I was worthy of entertaining my ideas.

#[21] #[22] and @npub1gvy07gxw6uu8rd57mz72mg4q2x7r5ptpp5gc832dv768e58hqd0q5nyn0t again for hysterical laughter, including me in a group to which I was new, and always making room for me.

There are so many. They didn't do it to "influence" me. But they have and will, more than any influencer on the Internet ever will. These are real people, who do the real things that make our community great. Everyone on here will have their own list, and that's what's great.

So often we get lost in hero worship that we forget the people who actually mean the most to us. Nostr would not be Nostr to me without these people. All the technology, advancements, etc. would lose their value without the real people on the other end of it.

So, thank you. With everything in my heart, thank you to all of you who are a part of my Nostr experience. Thank you to all of you who made this home.

Who are your real influencers? When is the last time you told them how important they are to you?

I’ve really appreciated your presence on nostr! We’re lucky to have you as a member of this community ā˜ŗļø always thoughtful and patient and kind. You’d definitely make my list, too!

Yeah, it’s super interesting about the RLHF! Overfit is a very real problem and adjusting weights on models this large can be kind of like a butterfly effect. I think there is a TON of value it its generalization. But I’m of the opinion that it can’t or maybe shouldn’t do all tasks for itself - to me it’s just not necessarily efficient, like using a hammer on a screw. Bigger doesn’t always mean better - it will start to underperform at a certain size. TBD what that is. But let it do what it does best! Language and conceptual derivations and awesome encoding, let other models do what they’re better suited at. Kind of like how our brains work… we have separate specialized areas that we delegate tasks to when necessary. We’re building awesome components, but I’d like us to acknowledge their limitations, not to discourage the work that has been done, but to figure out the next problem that needs to be solved.

Maybe. But the problem with many of those internal representations are just straight up lies. It’s not a truth telling machine. It’s about to produce compelling speech. It’s a bit different in spaces like engineering, where the content is so well curated. But just because it identifies a pattern, does not make it correct or intelligent. It would need some secondary mechanism for testing hypotheses, and at that point we’re moving out of the LLM space and into the reasoning space. Progress will come when these spaces come together.

Yeah, I think there is a lot of growth that will be happening in the model network architecture space. Using more precise smaller models for tasks that LLMs use to do specialized things, reasoning models (lots of good research going on here), as well as RI for experiments (but interestingly enough those require physics engines that we define, so most or the time they only can solve for that vs actual physics - this in combination with robotics and more sophisticated sensors though has a lot of promise - essentially self driving cars, and there is still a long ways to go there). Collaborative models are super cool though.

Ultimately though, I’m concerned about the data creation. I don’t want there to be a misunderstanding of how important it is that we continue to produce it.

The solution to these problems is actually smaller models solving more specific tasks. That’s his argument. The larger the model, the more abstract - its good at connecting dots, but will start to struggle with precision. He’s not saying a model can’t do this, he’s saying large LLMs do some things well and some things less well and viewing it as a one stop shop for all intelligence is not reasonable. We need RI, we need more specialized tasks, and we need a lot more research in reasoning models.