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Jon Chenot
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If we get 40000 in zaps I’ll buy it! Heck, Probably will buy it either way…

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people of nostr, i need some personal advice please. throwaway npub.

i’m a 43 yo male. i’ve wanted to start a family since i was 25, but haven’t found someone i wanted to take that leap with… until my last girlfriend. we were together for 18 months, a long distance relationship but we saw each pretty much other every 2 to 3 weeks. it was incredible. and we both felt that way. i told her i wanted to marry her after 3 months (maybe a mistake to say? but she says she loved hearing it), and we were on the same page about having 4-5 kids. so what happened?

a couple months after i suggested we move in together when her lease ended, which required me moving 3 hours away and uprooting my whole life — but i was eager to do it for her, she broke up with me. then she asked to get back together after 3 days. then we broke up for a month. then back together for a month. etc etc. so it was on-again-off-again for the last 5 months. we ended things officially a few weeks ago. i still love her and she tells me she will always love me, but that she won’t be ready for a family for several years (she’s only 27) and that’s unfair to me when she knows how much i want that now. i offered to wait it out but that, i guess, doesn’t work.

so i am in the process of getting over her. i’m doing the things i need to do: i built a gym in my basement and have been throwing around heavy things, i’ve been taking care of myself and doing things that i like doing. i feel great physically and mostly great mentally. (i get sad thinking about losing her still) i have been going on dates (like i did every time we were separated). i know time will heal this very deep wound. but i still want to fulfill my life goals of building a family with someone amazing. it’s just… where the heck am i supposed to meet her?

i’m not a religious person, so going to church would be phony for me. i am an avid runner and meet girls at running clubs … but they seem to be her age or younger and i don’t think that age/lifestage is going to work anymore for me. the dating apps are horrendous, full of cliches (i setup dates semi-easily on them but they whole process is frustrating and zaps my will to keep looking on them). i’m in the process of setting up a 4 month trip overseas for this winter to escape my daily routine. to reset my psyche. and to get out of my own head. but the fear of aging myself out of this lifegoal is very real and very sad to me.

my buddy asked me before this last girlfriend, “was there ‘one that got away’ from the past girls you dated?” and after much reflection, i really don’t think so. i learned from those relationships what i value most. but i didn’t see any of them as the mother of my children. (is that weird to say?) if the bar is this past girlfriend and how she made me feel, everyone else was so far below it.

i just feel lost. any advice would greatly be appreciated. not sure this note will get any traction posting it anon. thanks nostr!

One thing that comes to mind when I’m hearing about your story is that you are essentially making this woman the center of your universe and instead of focusing on your goals and your purpose in life, you’re thinking about how to please her. she’s preoccupying all of your thoughts and all of your desires and you were thinking about her instead of to yourself you’re thinking about what she wants instead of what you want you’re thinking about and moving your life around how to make things convenient for her rather than Thinking about how does this relationship serve goals and my aspirations for life, professional life or prodigy and continuing your bloodline.

When a woman can see that she’s the center of your world it gives her great anxiety. It increases her anxiety because she already lives in an uncertain and volatile emotional world that is full of ups and downs and uncertainty. her biology makes her weak and unable to defend herself, even bleeding once a month during her menstrual cycles. On top of all of that, if she were to bare your child, she would be helpless and unable to defend herself or provide for herself for a year plus with pregnancy and caring for an infant child. Because of that she’s looking for a man who is superior to her and all respects and is concerned with his own strength, well-being and Direction in life. She’s looking for that because that’s what she is naturally attracted to.

Often times women will say things that are not necessarily aligned with what her actions actually show. For instance, she might say that she loved it that you said you wanted to marry her after three months, but in reality that may signal weakness and neediness on your side showing that she was your best option, and thus hypergamy was not satisfied. Hypergamy is simply the fact that women are going to be attracted to men who are of a higher sexual market value than them. That means that a woman is going to be most attracted to a man who she knows is desired by women who are as attractive or more attractive than her.

I think that what you’re dealing with is very common in this day and age and Im engaged with helping guys like you get this area of their life handled. If we dont properly generate attraction and genuine desire in the women we are with, they will cheat, leave, or poison drip the relationship.

Happy to chat more if you’re interested.

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Primal living at its finest!

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In #biarritz

Having nostr:npub1spdnfacgsd7lk0nlqkq443tkq4jx9z6c6ksvaquuewmw7d3qltpslcq6j7 around means you’ll be motivated to do sallys at random times of the day.

Primal living at its finest!

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Enini hates all social media. Let’s show her why nostr is different.

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Great convo. I was there.

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Excited for this to come out!

Coasta Rica has a huge place in my heart and it’s incredible to watch the freedom movement of bitcoin growing there.

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Getting some beer with bitcoiners at Basement Bar in #riga

Made it to Riga. Who else is here this week?

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With Pacific Bitcoin canceled this year and many people having existing plans to come to socal this October, I wonder who is interested in joining a (~200 person) Citadel Theory Summit event at a waterfront Mission Bay venue in San Diego.

Here’s a basic description of the event:

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Building Strong Bitcoiner Communities

October 17-18, 2024 (schedule TBD)

San Diego, California

Two days of in-depth exploration into Citadel Theory, a movement focused on creating resilient and self-sufficient interconnected Bitcoiner communities. Engage with leading thinkers and practitioners through theory talks, panel discussions, and practical skill workshops covering a wide range of topics essential for building a robust and sovereign lifestyle.

Topics Include:

•Bitcoin and digital sovereignty

•NOSTR

•Homesteading and self reliance

•Strategic Relocation

•Birth tourism

•Flag theory

•Jurisdictional arbitrage

•Bio Harmonization

•Animal based diets

•Lifestyle design

•Social dynamics

•Family dynamics

•Entrepreneurship

•Leadership

•Business Management Basics

•Breathwork

•First Aid

•Self Defense

•Sailing and boating

•Mobility training

The goal of this event is to equip you with the knowledge and skills to build and sustain a strong, self-sufficient community.

Pricing would start at $200 for the first 21 people to commit.

If i get a core commitment of 21 people commenting below, I’ll book the venue and release the registration page on CitadelTheory.com.

Share this post with anyone you think might be interested! Hopefully see you in San Diego.

Here’s a peak at the venue: