that's ok to be angry even with no explanations ♥️ I'm here if you want to say anything anytime 🌼
and what about you? how do you feel? sending you a hug! ♥️
#flowerstr
this is interesting. I'll investigate that within myself. it makes sense to me.
"When thoughts emenate from an ideology, a religion, or an identity, we are narrowing our view. When thoughts emenate from our true self, our thoughts are completely free because our true self is not caught in inside, outside, in-between, or any identity or ideology."
an excerpt from nostr:nprofile1qqsdfwkccfx5hmjfntas3qcww8w3q0npuqr42mfqhgh08pnlk4cndhspz9mhxue69uhkummnw3ezuamfdejj7qgswaehxw309ahx7um5wghx6mmd9uqsuamnwvaz7tmwdaejumr0dshskjf3lk (thank you ♥️)
full text is here: https://sacredpeak.ink/2024/09/07/taking-responsibility/
thank you so much, Dan! you're so kind! 🌼
"Saber o que sentimos é o primeiro passo para saber por que sentimos."
Bessel van der Kolk
e eu acrescentaria que sentir vem antes de tudo. porque às vezes saber o que sentimos é uma racionalização que nos distrai de sentir.
yes. that's perfect. it's just their observation, a simple thought that could have gone away, and not who those people are. when I read what you said I felt understood and I could see clearer. thanks, Brisket! it's nice to have your support here.
se não estivéssemos tão distraídos, o mundo que dizemos querer criar já estaria aqui.
I get triggered when someone, to protect a friend, makes fun of someone else, or try to diminish the person. I really don't see how it can make the hurt person feel better. it's just an attempt of distraction from what the person feels. that just keeps the feeling hidden and it will come out somehow and when it comes who will be there for the hurt person?
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I know there's something for me to see within myself about it. maybe the way I treat myself is full of cruelty when I make mistakes, when I'm not aware of myself, when I'm lost in vanity. but that's always an invite for compassion. an invite to drop this way of talking to myself and also stop judging what I've been doing that puts me down. an invite to just accept that I have this inner dialogue without thinking I'm stupid or that I waste my time with that. and also accept there I'm trying just to show you something I do everyday - observe myself and be radically compromised with my triggers. and accept that I run away from myself doing that.
when I do this I remember I can just feel what is coming.
yeees hahahaha
Six years ago I was starting a PhD in artificial intelligence with one of the most prestigious universities in France, but my heart was missing something I couldn’t be happy without. Today I’m living in Nashville, TN with my best friend and our son, making sure they’re healthy, loved, thriving, enjoying peace, community and the little, priceless things in life, living freely and fiercely.
I had no idea how happy I could be. 🥹
nostr:npub1clk6vc9xhjp8q5cws262wuf2eh4zuvwupft03hy4ttqqnm7e0jrq3upup9, you already know. ❤️
that's a beautiful life ♥️🌼
my life also changed a lot when I met my husband and now that the kids are growing I'm seeing more space for me to embrace other things. I'm sure that if the time for you to embrace other things come, it will be authentic and will reveal the the growth you've been through. I don't know if saying this makes any sense to you now.
estava olhando para um vaso de flor e fiquei reparando vários estagios de vida: a flor vigorosa que floresceu, outras secas prontas para cair, e outras esperando para abrir a seu tempo. eu não pude escolher a minha fase favorita. todas carregam em si sua beleza. e em cada uma delas o início, o fim e o meio.