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Have I mentioned that I was looking for a Husband, Loser Asshole?

Scumbag asshole just drove past. šŸ›»

He should REALLY do something about his TINY šŸ†Inferority Complex, same m.o. as the SHORT UNATTRACTIVE Scumbag Racist ASSHOLE Boyfriend SHORT NOT Pretty Bitch fked as a teenager!

ā€œDad bodā€ is, I think, mostly an šŸ‡ŗšŸ‡ø thing cuz I’ve noticed it doesn’t happen to men in Europe!

I have a VERY SPECIFIC physical type I am attracted to and the example of what I told my Gorgeous Natural REAL Blonde & VERY Smart Sassy Czech šŸ‡ØšŸ‡æ BFF in her 20s on our 1st meeting via an Ex-Model Guy Friend when she asked = šŸ‡®šŸ‡Ŗ Actor Jonathan Rhys Meyers.

Basically the same type as my crush in 5th grade: Skater šŸ›¹šŸŽØ Artsy Boys

That plus, ARTSY CREATIVE and good bone structure as in goodlooking enough to be a Model.

There’s a specific type of guys who are into skateboarding. šŸ›¹

Dealing with fking BULLSHIT from another company.

Unnecessary things they should be fking providing FREE as part of their service!

I tend to remember things in which I had to fking call many times, talk to many, many people, write a letter to another company and call more people cuz they fked up and had to jump thru hoops over 2 years to get stuff taken care of issue NOT for me!

So fk NO, will NOT be going with that company again!

Total fking waste of my VALUABLE time — many, many hours — over 2 years! 😔

I’m still pretty photogenic. And don’t wear that much makeup. If I put on mascara and eyeliner, that’s ā€œdolled upā€ for me.

Lately, just been wearing clear mascara cuz haven’t found a black mascara formula that I love yet, that’s worth the time and fuss of taking it off.

I’m also a pretty self-contained person. Self-contained meaning I can LEAVE now, disappear into the abyss, cut off contact with everyone I know and I’d be fine.

I meet people easily and make new friends very easily, so I could start over in a completely new place, a new life, new friends, new everything and I would be fine.

Perhaps even much happier, without the burdens, people and places that are holding me back.

When a woman decides to leave a person, place or thing, it means she’s been VERY UNHAPPY for a while.

There are clues to her unsatisfactory life if you are attuned to them, if she hasn’t verbalized them.

So if you are a perceptive person, it won’t be a surprise when she does finally go bye bye outta your life. Your loss, not hers. It’s HER choice.

ā€œWhy Women Initiate Divorce More Often Than Menā€

https://divorce.com/blog/who-initiates-divorce-more/

Addendum to Note to Men:

It’s not just the initial PHYSICAL attraction that is VERY IMPORTANT in engaging in a woman’s interest.

ā€œDad bodā€ is NOT sexy nor attractive!

Many man get lazy, busy, drink too much šŸŗ, whateva and let themselves go physically!

Many of y’all men need to spend some time & effort in looking your BEST even after scoring that woman and in a relationship with her.

There are multiple reasons why it’s usually women who initite more divorces than men.

If she’s no longer physically attracted to you, she probably doesn’t wanna have sex with you!

Physical affection & sex = glue that hold a loving, satisfactory romantic relationship together.

Note to Men:

Fyi, just because women aren’t shallow as y’all since women NOTICE & VALUE more things than just how physically attractive & hot a person is, doesn’t mean we don’t notice looks & appearance!

If you want to engage a woman’s interest, NEED to put some time and effort into looking good physically!

The initial physical attraction = VERY IMPORTANT

A man may be the most intellectually brilliant, talented, sweet, kind/nice thoughtful person, but if she’s not PHYSICALLY attracted to you, it’s not going anywhere.

You’ll be placed in Friendzone category forever!

It’s not just mannerisms women notice, but many of us notice what men are wearing!

Ladies who are into fashion definitely notice things like men’s shoes, cut, color & fabric of the suit, etc.

And a man who smells great (but not too overpowering as if attacked by a cologne bottle) wins major brownie points!

I am someone who if I have a VERY unsatisfactory experience with a service/product, I express my experience and views to the company!

In a POLITE & RESPECTFUL way usually — no swearing or being a rude, entitled jerk, obvi.

Imho, the CEO & Executives of ALL companies should be attuned to their Customer’s feedback as well as giving DIRECT access to ALL of their employees, especially those who have to deal with their customers in person who use their service/product.

There’s a BIG difference in customers who are simply whiny, entitled, jerky people who like to complain about everything and those VALUABLE Customers who actually give VALUABLE feedback.

The latter have legitimate, helpful feedback regarding their UNSATISFACTORY experience with a company’s service/product and should be listened to.

And an excellent and QUALITY company with an excellent CEO will do things to rectify their unsatisfactory experience and implement helpful ideas/suggestions to make the Company BETTER!

An excellent CEO will also be DIRECTLY accessible to ALL their employees and not just to the ā€œVIPā€ high level executives of the company.

And LISTEN to the feedback, ideas and suggestion of ALL of company’s employees, especially to those who are interacting with people who are using company’s service/product!

Hey, fyi: šŸ‡¬šŸ‡§Neil Gaiman is doing an event in šŸ‡¬šŸ‡§London on 20 November at the British Library.

I also know who he is interviewing cuz šŸ‡¬šŸ‡§Neil sent her to take me out for a hot meal many years ago.

Both are lovely and polite British people. I’d recommend going to see them (irl) if you can!

https://www.neilgaiman.com/where/details.php?id=351

RIP. He was brilliant and had so much potential! Very sad.

šŸ˜… Yep! Girls also have pillow fights wearing sexy skimpy lingerie at sleepovers!

Green tea šŸµ for antioxidant health benefits.

I think I’ll be channeling the WRATH of Taylor Swift (šŸ‡¬šŸ‡§Amy Wadge, met in šŸ“ó §ó ¢ó ·ó ¬ó ³ó æCardiff, Wales and offered to help her šŸ”— šŸ‡¬šŸ‡§Ed Sheeran šŸ”— Taylor Swift)

&

3 people who personally know Justin Vernon of Bon Iver

against the guy who stupidly, royally PISSED Taylor OFF

But on a grander, bigger epic scale cuz in my case, it involves way more ASSHOLE people!

Plus, pretty damn certain I know hella lot more VERY SMART people!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Will be adding MORE to the list of people/groups/places and things that are going to be fking sued by ME!

And WAY THE FK OVERDUE for prison time for some of them and WAY THE FK OVERDUE FOR ME TO FKING FILE LAWSUITS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Things I do NOT like: When OTHER people make me waste my valuable time doing things I would not have to do if it weren’t for them!!

One of the many, many reasons I do NOT like People in general (like most children tho) and am definitely NOT a People Person (but very likable, I really do NOT care if people like me or not!)

Fact: I can fking tell when someone other than ME has touched my stuff WITHOUT my fking permission/consent!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Cuz I have my OWN fking system!!!😔