I would not necessarily agree with that statement.
Personally, I would LOVE the ability to BLOCK people and would definitely fking BLOCK the Shallow Attention Whore RUDE Bitch responsible for my getting attacked for hours months ago.
Bitch and those who attacked me will NEVER EVER have anything to do with me again in the future nor be invited to any soirees or events!
Nostr is NOT intuitive and difficult for the average person to figure it out to use, esp if not a Coder or a 💻 Geek.
So it’s NOT accessible for a main stream audience and that’s why it’s a better group of people who use it now.
Main stream audience = ALWAYS ⬆️⬆️⬆️ of low integrity and jerks.
It’s your body’s Circadian Clock/Rhythm. That’s how you were born. People are born with an internal clock, so lot of people falsely think late risers are lazy but they’re not.
Their brains just aren’t wired to be morning people.
And most societies are built around Morning people.
Thank you!
Here’s PROOF that I was not lying about the 🇫🇷French Architect from 🇫🇷Nice, France who is friends with Architect Frank Gehry and owned an entire street (rue) in 🇫🇷Paris chatting me up while I was playing with 🇫🇷French children near a 🇫🇷French friend’s art gallery.
It’s a self-portrait he drew in my notebook. He looked a bit like 🇬🇧British Director Alfred Hitchcock and was a lovely man. He told me about his children, we discussed few things, and he gave me his business card which I still have.
He wasn’t fluent in English and I am not yet fluent in French, so our conversation was limited.
If I were a PRETTY 💅🏼👙👠👠🛍️🛍️SHALLOW Bitch hoping to nap myself a wealthy man, I would’ve jumped on that opportunity but since I am NOT, didn’t.
Not certain if he’s still alive since was obvi much older than me when we met in 🇫🇷Paris.
Remember, even if you are coupled up — married or not — you are an INDIVIDUAL, one person.
Just cuz you have a romantic partner does NOT mean you have fused into one entity!
(I find couples like that to be SUPER ANNOYING!!)
“I” does NOT automatically become a “we” for everything, even if have kids!
Ideally, it’s 2 individuals with their OWN personalities, interests, hobbies, opinions/views CHOOSING to be with their romantic partner for the RIGHT reasons (as in not cuz the other person has a lot of money, status, power, physical beauty, etc).
The couple should share mutual interests and have similar life values & visions for their future but also DIFFERENT enough that they do their OWN thing and can learn from each other.
COMPATIBLE & COMPLEMENTARY!
If one is too dependent on their romantic partner and clingy & desperate for them to like them so change their views/opinions or answers to match yours when ask them — that would be a major TURN OFF for me, personally.
That has happened to me where I asked a guy some questions and he changed his answers to match mine.
I did NOT like that!
Obviously, I eventually broke up with him.
He was even more WHOLESOME than me!
And personally, it’s been my belief that Musicians (unless a Composer) & Artists are NOT great for dating. They’re my people, but I like people who are reliable, stable, and do NOT like drama!
CREATIVE and SMART but NO DRAMA! Flaky people are a waste of my valuable time!
They get filtered out!
Why do you get up so early? Are you a Super Early Riser?
Most Artists/Creative people tend to be nocturnal creatures.
And I’ll buy one of your paintings, after my book finally gets published.
And obvi, you & wife will be invited to FAB soirees!
Coffee ☕️ (❤️) + Sunday NYT 📰 (❤️) = since my 20s
If only I could get some freshly baked croissant 🥐 🥐 from a patisserie from 🇫🇷Paris, that would be PERFECTION!
In the near future, OUI!
And I definitely will be in a place that I REALLY LIKE, across the pond!
Things I learned while exercising and watching old Rick Steves’ travel show, episode about 🇬🇧Cambridge & 🇬🇧Oxford:
Almost ~100 Nobel Award Winners from 🇬🇧The University of Cambridge. 🇬🇧Stephen Hawking & 🇬🇧Sir Isaac Newton went there.
IMPRESSIVE!
🇬🇧👑King Charles also went there.
Only ~50 Nobel Award Winners from 🇬🇧University of Oxford tho.
Oh, and an old friend of 🇬🇧Neil Gaiman also went to 🇬🇧University of Oxford, the one he kindly sent to help me cuz I got hit with a VERY BAD SEVERE case of flu, felt like got hit by a bus so could NOT waitress at a posh restaurant on Regent Street in London 🇬🇧after 2-3 days.
And she told me some interesting things which I will NOT be revealing.
That DISASTROUS but Super Interesting one month trip where I met and befriended lots of people from all over the 🌎🌍🌏 made me appreciate the Kindness of Strangers!
And I still remember most of their names and one visited me twice.
And his parents wrote me a lovely letter and said I had an open invitation to their house for dinner, same city as where my very well-matched married couple friends who volunteered at an orphanage live.
He used to be VP at Bank of America and has excellent music taste!
He’s volunteering at non-profit for years kind of person and NOT the GREEDY asshole type obvi!
Interesting. Never heard of that before, just noticed you seem to like those 4:44 numbers.
I don’t really believe in numerology but however, I have developed an AVERSION to the number 3 and that’s entirely cuz of what’s been going on my irl life!
The 2nd REPULSIVE CREEPER WILL BE going to prison for many, many years and so will others who know him & similar to him!
I WILL BE MAKING CERTAIN OF IT and filing many, many lawsuits!
It’s ALL ABOUT KARMA!
So there should be GOOD things headed your way!
And your paintings being bought!
I learned today that’s the name of a Jay-Z album!
He’s a lucky man married to Beyoncé, and I hope he ALWAYS remembers that!
🇬🇧Radiohead - “Karma 🚓”
The 🇬🇧Cambridge Uni Alum 🇬🇧English Banker whose ex-gf was 🇸🇪Swedish also liked British band 🇬🇧Radiohead.
And brought me 2 books as prezzies, one a book by 🇯🇵Haruki Murakami.
In retrospect, think I was stupid not having dated him cuz that’s a lotta gorgeous Philip Treacy hats that I could’ve worn over the years to 🇬🇧English 🌸🪻🪴🫖 garden parties & fancy weddings with him!
Perhaps I would’ve ran into 🇬🇧Plum Sykes at a party!
Oh well. I’m a loyal, one man kinda girl but most girls would’ve definitely juggled or traded UP if in the same situation as me back then.
FYI, there’s a DIFFERENCE in calling a UK Person 🇬🇧English and 🇬🇧British.
And it has nothing to do with if the person grew up in 🇬🇧England.
I’d advise asking an ACTUAL UK person about what the distinction is between 🇬🇧British person and 🇬🇧English person to understand it!
The BIG Lesson = BE CAREFUL who you PISS OFF cuz that unassuming person may turn out to be a POWERFUL Woman who can and WILL SQUISH you like a bug!
As an Old Soul, a quote by Ralph Waldo Emerson I have believed in since a Wee Lil Lass!
To NOT use the Pretty Girl Card to merely become a PRETTY Girl was a CHOICE cuz pretty damn certain I could have married a 🇬🇧Cambridge University Grad 🇬🇧English Banker who insisted on visiting me after 2 innocent dates during trip to see Fashion Designer girl friend in 🇬🇧London, 🇫🇷French Architect who owned an entire street in 🇫🇷Paris (grew up in 🇫🇷Nice, France) who chatted me up while I was playing with 🇫🇷French children and friends with Architect Frank Gehry, and other Wealthy, Famous or VIP Men *IF* I had wanted!
Nope, I’m NOT a Shallow 💅🏼👙👠👠🛍️🛍️ PRETTY Bitch!
And I do NOT respect them nor am I friends with girls like that! ICK!
Let me think. . . 🤔
When was the 1st time I ever 🖕🏼at someone/something?
Oh, I can recall EXACTLY when and even the outfit that I was wearing!
It was at the thing that I should have fking sued for millions of dollars!
(Obvi, I will NOT be making the same mistake again and WILL BE FILING MANY LAWSUITS which deserve it!)
Black maxi dress, bought in Soho shop, hat, 🕶️ and SMILING!
I was solo and it was during lunch break.
Have I mentioned how I fking PISSED OFF I am about my book not being published YEARS AGO by Intelligent & Quality imprint, my favorite since 20s??
And the Literary Agent who went to🇨🇭Swiss Boarding School whom I personally know and wanted to converse with again is unavailable now — another thing I am fking PISSED OFF about! 😡
Btw, I VERY RARELY lie!
As in I will remember if I DO lie cuz it’s such a VERY VERY RARE occasion, and it’s been that way forever!
I don’t see the point of lying cuz the TRUTH will eventually come out.
And it’s called being an Honest Person of Integrity and Character!
And I WILL filter out people who have lied to me (except for few white lies of no significance) as in BYE BYE FOREVA!
Even tho I’m a VERY polite and kind/nice person, I just felt like 🖕🏼at someone when he drove past about ~26 minutes ago.
Asshole (along with his buddy) should be interrogated by 👮♂️🚓 cuz buddy of REPULSIVE Creeper Number 2 and most likely knows WHERE he’s hiding!
SAME type of person (don’t think have same level of 💻skills tho) and was participating in harassment and causing me STRESS & DISTRESS!
He used to drive a blue pickup 🛻 but now drives a red & white pickup 🛻!
Hmm, what is my Number 1 REGRET in life?
STUPIDLY signing away my rights to sue something cuz I definitely fking would have sued it otherwise for millions of dollars!
It happened during a vulnerable time, so I would advise to NOT do that!
Oh and sometimes, NOT a good thing being “exceptional” in quality and competency cuz it will screw you over cuz majority of others are NOT at same excellent level, so you end up carrying majority of the burden, including have to clean up other people’s years of INCOMPETENCY, self learn most of it, establish new protocols and make things MUCH BETTER than before!
They might be,you never know. Maybe even nostr:npub1xtscya34g58tk0z605fvr788k263gsu6cy9x0mhnm87echrgufzsevkk5s and nostr:npub180cvv07tjdrrgpa0j7j7tmnyl2yr6yr7l8j4s3evf6u64th6gkwsyjh6w6 will be there too. 😂🤭
Well, I know Will is Canadian so perhaps. nostr:npub180cvv07tjdrrgpa0j7j7tmnyl2yr6yr7l8j4s3evf6u64th6gkwsyjh6w6 speaks Portuguese, not sure where he grew up but he seems kinda grumpy to me.
I think Canadians are very nice and modest! I have a girl friend who grew up in 🇨🇦Toronto, very talented Writer.
I have yet to meet a Canadian who is an asshole yet!
Selena Gomez’s 🇨🇦ex is a total spoiled & rude brat tho. Glad she found an actual man who treats her well now! Her tears for her ex-bf was NOT worth it!
Not sure why her BFF Taylor Swift didn’t tell her to dump his ass and move on years ago. That’s what I would have advised!
A guy cheats, LEAVE his ass and find a much better man!
They might be,you never know. Maybe even nostr:npub1xtscya34g58tk0z605fvr788k263gsu6cy9x0mhnm87echrgufzsevkk5s and nostr:npub180cvv07tjdrrgpa0j7j7tmnyl2yr6yr7l8j4s3evf6u64th6gkwsyjh6w6 will be there too. 😂🤭
Well, that would be cool but 🇨🇦Drake would be banned from talking about Rihanna (happily coupled up)!
I think 🇨🇦Drake’s son is adorable, like a little cheurb with his Blonde ringlets!
Perhaps he should go for the kind of girls who read 🇨🇦Margaret Atwood books, pretty AND smart, not just hot if he’s looking for a wife!
🇬🇧Sting - “Fields of Gold”
British Musician 🇬🇧Sting (real name Gordon Sumner) used to be a Teacher. I used to have a little postcard size pic of him on my wall (along with Toni Morrison, Katharine Hepburn, paintings by Artists I love, Martin Luther King, Jr, etc. on the wall of my dorm at uni.)
A guy I know very well went to prep school with 🇬🇧Sting’s daughter and he had a crush on her.
One of my brilliantly talented guy friends (Painter/Musician/Genius Level Smart & Beautiful) is close friends with a Writer/Artist/Musician (who was the boyfriend of a famous Beatnik Writer) knows/friends with 🇬🇧Sting.