If I go to a party or an event, I’m always gonna notice the most STYLISH person first.
And drawn to talk to the most interesting and physically attractive person.
If they are all three, that’s like the holy grail but VERY rare!
Even more hella rare is a person who is stylish+interesting+goodlooking+nice!
Not sure what other people do?
The most interesting and attractive person!
Looks like Canada will be restoring jus sanguinis, or citizenship by descent after the current laws were ruled unconstitutional. The current rules are based on where the parent or child is born. This has lead to a bunch of children of Canadian citizens being born with no citizenship at all.
I’m glad this is getting resolved because I’ve been in limbo my entire adult life, where Canadian immigration gets upset at me for not entering Canada on a Canadian passport and Canadian Citizenship services keeps asking for more documentation that doesn’t appear possible to produce. It’s complicated because there are three agencies (the third one being the military) which all think it’s the other one’s job to resolve the problem.
My problem was number 9 in this list, my father was a ‘military brat’.
https://lostcanadian.com/twelve-ways-canadians-lost-their-citizenship/
Anyway, there’s lots of stupidity going on with the Canadian government these days, but it’s nice to see the courts are finally fixing some of this. There’s about 200,000 of us who lost citizenship in 2019 and looks like it’ll be restored soon.
https://www.cbc.ca/news/politics/no-appeal-lost-canadians-1.7090649
https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/canada-court-citizenship-unconstitutional-1.7067039
Glad to see this is being fixed, and thanks to the amazing folks at Lost Canadians who fought to force the government to do the right thing.
That is very surprising to hear! I thought Canada was overall more progressive?
But glad about good news for you! 👏🏼
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SNL sketch “Acting Class” — Saturday, January 20, 2024 with 🇦🇺Jacob Elordi as Guest Host
I finally got around to watching The Earthshot Prize 2023, aired on 11/22/2023.
Gorgeous performance by British band 🇬🇧Bastille on The Earthshot Prize (Founded by 🇬🇧👑Prince William) 2023, filmed in 🇸🇬Singapore, where I have a guy friend who co-designed a game with illustrations which were very Edward Goreyish.
I learned about the word Akrasia and we had a brief conversation about it.
You know what I absolutely do not want? A humanoid robot stumbling around my house, using the power of AI to confidently but incorrectly do my chores.
#tormentnexus
https://thenextweb.com/news/1x-humanoid-robot-neo-investment
I finally got around to reading the article and YES to Norwegian startup but personally find any robots designed to resemble a human person to be super creepy & disturbing!
Have techy people not learned from TV series “Battlestar Galactica”, the re-make version??!
As in telling someone to piss off if they are really bothering you!
The Brits use ricotta or mascarpone cheese in their cheesecake.
The only other German I know is fich dich.
I asked my brilliant & beautiful Artist guy friend who has studied engineering here and Germany how to say fuck off in German and that’s what he told me.
Is that correct? Thanks!
Even more with NATURAL beauty added in!
MY Type of Man can rock leather trousers and look damn SEXY in it!
I can visualize my VERY goodlooking (NO facial hair but very nice longer hair!), brilliantly SMART, creative & innovative, very wealthy, kind/nice, stylish, thoughtful & considerate husband wearing one!
Only a tiny percentage of people can wear black leather trousers or leather dress/miniskirt and look GOOD in it!
And they have the attitude, style, COOL factor and the self-confidence for it!
(Plus a certain body frame as in fit!)
Like 🇬🇧David Bowie, Model Iman’s Husband, R.I.P.
Hazards of writing, editing and proofreading stuff on the fly = teeny tiny errors like typos and other annoying things! 😡
Anyway, time for me to eat food and read my 📰!
Happy Sunday!
I personally no longer believe in the concept of “The One” in romantic love cuz think there are potentially several Excellent Love Matches out there for everyone.
When I was a HYPER (Silly)🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹Romantic Young Girl but still a Very Wise & Old Soul, I amusingly told 🇬🇧Neil Gaiman “I think I met my Soul Mate!” several times. 😅
They obvi weren’t so I have never called anyone “My Soul Mate” since those silly days!
Timing is VERY VERY IMPORTANT in True Love❤️❤️: *BOTH* people have to be ready and available in heart and logistically.
If either are married or already in a monogamous romantic relationship, they should simply tell their current Partner, Break Up 💔and THEN, go be with the NEW person.
Do *NOT* cheat and get physical with the new Love til current partner has been told of your decision to leave them!
Be HONEST (and kind)!
Sometimes, the forces that pull 2 people together is beyond logic & reason and they are MEANT TO BE TOGETHER!
I know a (Physically) Beautiful & Amazing Couple who grew old together who met this way. And have 3 talented and attractive sons.
Personally, I can think of at least 5 Men who were good love matches that I would have married years ago if timing and circumstances aligned.
All very physically attractive, very smart, stylish, tall, creative, interesting, NICE, GOOD people of Integrity+Quality+Honesty!
1) Almost Husby who studied at 2 different Ivy League universities, plays 🎹, several mutual friends/people (who was at my EXCLUSIVE 🎨 event)
2) Kind person who did a favor for me in 🇫🇷Paris, but we were given bad advice by a 🇫🇷French Hotel Clerk (was invited to my 🎨 event)
3) Another invited person at my EXCLUSIVE 🎨 event
4) Another invited person at my EXCLUSIVE 🎨 event
5) Another invited person at my EXCLUSIVE 🎨 event
And I was NOT on the search for any of them!
Love happens NATURALLY!
If you’re DESPERATELY searching for it, thinking another person can complete you into a Whole person and that it’ll somehow magically 🪄 make you into a Happy Fulfilled Person, sorry but that’s *NOT* how True Love goes!
YOU need to learn to become a happy person BY YOURSELF first and be happy with your OWN company!
Another person won’t make you feel less lonely when not comfortable with WHO you are as a person, did a brutally honest self-assessment and have accepted ALL the bits of the things that make you who you are, the positives AND negative qualities.
There is no such thing as a Perfect Person! I’ve had guys tell me “You’re the perfect girl!” but please, it does NOT exist!
(Amal Clooney is the CLOSEST person I can think of as being The Perfect Woman and obvi George Clooney is fully aware of that and NOT stupid enough to do anything to risk losing her! He had vowed to never marrying again before he met Amal and had definitely dated many physically attractive girls & women before Amal, including a 20something 🇫🇷French girl who was WAY TOO YOUNG for him! And one woman who was DESPERATE to become his wife and reveled in the attention!)
SELF ❤️ + SELF Awareness!
Otherwise, susceptible to tolerating abusive and disrespectful behavior from Romantic Partner!
Fact: Sorry guys but women DO care about a man’s height in dating.
That is why men often lie about it (add to it to seem taller) and women will lie about their weight (trim it down to seem thinner.)
I would advise to meet irl ASAP when dating if you didn’t meet the person organically IN person.
PHYSICAL attraction is VERY IMPORTANT in the initial stage of any potential romantic relationship.
And other things like chemistry, smell, etc.
These are things that can ONLY be felt and experienced IN PERSON!
No point in wasting time building up a fantasy of someone in mind cuz they VERY RARELY match up irl.
Meet irl ASAP to screen them and then decide if want to actually date them.
And obviously, if you don’t like their personality or vibe, just say “Next” and move on.
But don’t ghost cuz that’s VERY IMMATURE & INCONSIDERATE behavior!
Be respectful and tell them they’re not the right match for you. Easy Peasy!
SNL - “Crown Your Short King” (Sat, Jan 20, 2024)
VERY TALENTED & Gorgeous Chloe Fineman playing Tiffany seeking her 👑 with the 🇦🇺Very Tall, Handsome & Talented Jacob Elordi as guest host last night.
Professional Advice:
Good to remember that HR is *NOT* your friend.
(However, one of my close friends is a high level HR Executive at an international company.)
HR may be helpful sometimes but the bottom line is, they are there to PROTECT the Company!
So I would advise to write everything down, document everything and LAWYER THE FK UP!
And GET THE FK OUT WAY *BEFORE* toxic environment & situation makes you EXHAUSTED in every way possible and PHYSICALLY ILL.
That’s your body telling you to GET THE FUCK OUTTA THERE!
QUIT/RESIGN WAY WAY BEFORE THAT!! (But don’t burn bridges, obvi!)
And NEVER EVER NEVER EVER sign away your rights to sue cuz that would be a TERRIBLE, STUPID & BAD MISTAKE!