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I think it’s cruel to lead people on if you have *NO* interest in them, romantically!

The heart is a VERY ♥️ fragile thing and often, it’s Strangers who barely KNOW the *REAL & TRUE* you who “fall in love” with their *perception* of who they want you to be.

It’s not based on reality — but rather, they are putting onto you, THEIR hopes and ideals of a romantic partner.

I once had a guy tell me “I think I love you” after only spending a weekend hanging out — NO nookie! — which I thought was WAY TOO MUCH, HELLA TOO SOON!

It was flattering but awkward and my response to him was “Thank you. But I don’t think you do [love me] because you don’t know me.” ⁤⁣

I did not mean to be come off attacky — just felt very strongly — so apologize!

Great for you that you have witnessed beauty in the struggle; I don’t think that’s usual so you’re lucky.

My FAVORITE Kendrick Lamar song! ❤️😍🔂

Kendrick Lamar - “LOVE” ❤️ ft. Zacari

https://youtu.be/ox7RsX1Ee34?feature=shared

Haha. I used to call 🇫🇷Descartes The French Bastard! 😅

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😅 Every (straight) male fantasy!

Super RUDE child! No to hitting but ALL his toys & privileges should be taken away for 2 weeks, imho.

Including📱if parent was stupid enough to indulge kid with a smartphone!

NO internet usage for 2 weeks, except for homework related.

And kid should write his mom an apology letter, on card he made for her!

Advice to Girls/Women:

When a guy is *INTO* YOU and INTERESTED, YOU WILL KNOW!

Do *NOT* chase after a guy!!

It doesn’t matter how busy he is nor how important of a person, *IF* HE IS *INTERESTED* in you, he WILL MAKE TIME ⏰ FOR YOU, no matter what! ⁤⁣

Substance > Style but ideally, BOTH!

🧠 > 👗👢👢👖🧥🥼👞🕶️

I just thought of an example of a GREEDY DESPERATE TO “Win” Asshole that you may be familiar with. 1st name Travis!

MANY MANY MANY MANY more examples I can think of, esp who can be found where Ernest Hemingway liked! 🍊🍊🍊🍊🍋🍋‍🟩🥧🏰🐭

Ana de Armas! Very talented and LIKABLE. Obvi gorgeous!

My friend who knows her wasn’t impressed by her acting, but I thought she’d be nominated for an Oscar 🏆 and think she was altho didn’t win.

I haven’t seen the film and zero desire to see it cuz again, from a MALE perspective and the character she played was definitely fking EXPLOITED, ABUSED & USED by MANY men!

I think Greta Gerwig should do a FEMALE perspective 📽️and think Sydney Sweeney would be the PERFECT Actress to play the role!

But YES, lots of ugliness in “success” in which overly ambitious SELFISH people will compromise their “values”, screw people over and be totally fking ASSHOLES & Arseholes to reach the top!

I *STRONGLY* DISAGREE with that!

There is NO FKING BEAUTY in the struggle!

You obvi haven’t actually experienced and endured TRUE struggles cuz you wouldn’t be saying that otherwise!

FYI: In case you’re not aware, *UNLESS* you are Black and have experienced systematic racism and its “many benefits” of being owned by another human being and whose relatives were subjected to HORRIBLE TERRIBLE things, you should *NOT* be using the “N” word, and that includes 🇫🇷French, UK, 🇦🇺Australians and others around the 🌎🌏🌍 who aren’t familiar with the history!

Kendrick Lamar - “XXX” ft. U2

https://youtu.be/dgH-wjP1JPc?feature=shared

Discovered an AMAZINGLY TALENTED Painter whose style I LOVE! 😍

He’s based in 🇦🇺Australia.

😅 If you marry the *RIGHT* woman, she may agree!

Perhaps you should try dating a UK woman!