Not the same thing at all. Not even close. Which I know you know.

Russian drone operators are dropping grenades on individual Ukrainian civilians with the intention of killing them specifically. A drone operator saw that baby, moved his drone to get on target, and released the grenade with the intent of killing that baby.

Israel is unintentionally killing Gazan civilians in airstrikes on valid military targets, Hamas. Israel has every right to defeat Hamas, and the onus is on Gazan civilians who don't want to fight to leave to the designated safety zones.

Russia has _zero_ right to fight Ukraine. As evil as it is to intentionally kill that baby, every single shot fired by a Russian soldier is also evil. Russian soldiers who are somehow captured without having surrendered should be executed for attempted murder. Israel has every right to fight Hamas, a military force with the clear goal of genociding the Jewish population.