Focusing in imagination is very hard.

Focusing in reality is easy.

Do whatever you need to do and you will conquer it!

"X% of people do this... Y% do that..."

Statistics are supposed to tell us who we really are, but are used to tell us who we should be.

We become who we think we should be, and when we are told who, we tend to accept it and comply.

You are an individual! Not just a member of some statistic group. You can do whatever your creative mind can accept. Create your own life the way you want it!

Every time you do something and don't receive the result you want, you have the opportunity to change and become more effective. The experience you've just received is a good starting point. The more you try, the better you become!

To create something, we need a decision and a plan.

Research the topic you are interested in. Decide what result you want. Write a plan and start executing.

Most likely, lots of things will be inefficient and will not work the way you thought and planned, but this is exactly what you need to get experienced and more efficient.

After some time, you may even stop, rethink, and replan based on new info and experience you have.

The more focused you are and the more attention you pay, the quicker and more effective the progress will be.

This is your world. Act like it!

The trick is to make things that we need to do in life interesting. Life becomes an exciting journey.

Forcing someone to do whatever they don't want to do is inefficient. The better way will be to communicate clearly what you want and then create the environment where they will want to do it. In relationships, business, and in any other areas...

Doing physical activity is mandatory, not optional. We work to be a part of society and to earn money to live; similarly, we need to train our way to health.

If you were the one who was chasing, don't be surprised when she'll not care when you're gone.

Your value doesn't increase by doing more things for her.

Your value increases by the more things she does for you.

Great life is built, and it takes time. Years. Even decades. There is no ther way to dream life. The sooner you start building, the better!

If we could only do everything as effectively as possible, eat the exact amounts of the exact foods we need, train exactly as hard as is necessary, do business as efficiently as possible, and communicate with people in the best possible way, our lives would be amazing.

In the real world it is impossible, unfortunately.

Who are you? Where are you headed?

Our lives and the world around us are reflections of ourselves. Whatever we think, however we feel, whatever we do, will create our worlds.

What kind of life do you want? Focus!

Once upon a time, I was walking with my friend. We were talking about the power of manifestation, how whatever we truly want with our whole hearts is given to us by the universe, if we are ready to take it.

I said "I want to meet a beautiful asian girl, feminine, with glowing eyes". Several minutes passed, and I saw 2 beautiful girls (they were asians). It happened so fast I didn't even realize it was happening for real. I approached immediately, looked in the eyes of the girl I liked, and said:

– Hi... Listen... You just conquered me with your fiery eyes. I don't have time for a small talk or introduction now... Give me your Insta and I will figure out later what I'm doing with you... Don't be afraid, you can block me if you don't like anything...

– You have a sense of humor for sure (smiling).

While I was writing her Insta, I asked what they were doing (they were tourists) and how long they were planning to stay in our city (they were planning to fly back home the next day). I thanked them and wished them all the best.

After several hours of walking, when I finally decided to go home, it was 1 AM already. I thought "It's too late to meet her now. And she flies home tomorrow. There is no time for any meaningful connection. But I can just try, at least. I can do my part, and the univers will sort out the rest."

I messaged her "Wanna ride a sportsbike with me? Refreshing our minds..."

She replied with her location. I started the bike and flew there.

She came out. I hugged her. Asked if she had ever tried riding as a passenger before. She said no. I explained everything, we put on helmets, and started our journey.

After 30 minutes of fun and adrenaline, I stopped and asked if she had enough fun and if she wanted me to take her home. She said yes, and I took her back.

We stopped near her place and before she was going to leave I said "Let's have a walk!" She agreed. We walked for 15 minutes talking about life, joking.

When we returned to her place, just right before she was going to leave, I said "What a beautiful bench! You see there? Let's sit for several minutes." She agreed.

We were sitting on a wooden bench in a beautiful park at 2 AM, perfect weather, full moon, looking into each others eyes. I said:

– How do you feel? Good? Or amazing?

– There are only these options? (smiling)

– Yes. If you would feel otherwise you would not be with me now, would you?

– True (smiling), I feel amazing.

– Yes, life is amazing. So many interesting things happen. When I first saw you, I imagined us together sitting, chilling, and looking at each other. And now we are here. And there is only one thing missing...

– What is that?

– A kiss.

I kissed her gently for 30 seconds. Then, I looked into her eyes. She was enchanted.

– There is one more thing missing.

– What is it?

– You come with me to my place now, and I'll show you.

– Ok.

Great idea:

When people who love alcohol become sober, they feel bad. What if they drink all the time? They should be in eternal pleasure this way!

Also, we get pleasure when we eat tasty (sweet) food. What if we eat all the time?

I found the secret to eternal pleasure!

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There are lots of chemical substances that, if eaten, taste good. Why aren't you eating these? Because no one convinced you it is food, no one packaged it brightly, and no one advertised it as healthy.

How you dress doesn't matter that much. How you feel in that clothes is what matters the most.

Are you a serious person? Can you be trusted?

Nature gave you the most valuable gift of all — your life. It is your duty now to take care of yourself and raise to the maximum performance level possible.

There are important things in life, and there are unimportant things.

The level of your character in a video game will not change anything in your life. Your collection of stickers, your colorful haircut, and your knowledge of sports news and scores are meaningless; they will not change your life positively.

But your intellect, your strong and fit body, your connections with meaningful people, and the businesses you build — all of these will change your life for the better and make it much more interesting and exciting.

Choose your priorities wisely!

We will always return to our baseline state. Make sure it is the person you want to be.

Every time you lie, you take a loan from your future.