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Does Olas not work with outbox, nostr:npub1l2vyh47mk2p0qlsku7hg0vn29faehy9hy34ygaclpn66ukqp3afqutajft? I’ve tried several times to post, but just get permanent spinners.

Make sure you’re on the latest version 0.1.7

I was having this issue yesterday till I saw the update

Probably when the dark mode doesn’t display black text on a grey background 🤪

Don’t have the beta?

Backups to nas raid, yes.

Unsure about as the main drive

It a joy to use!

Custom blossom server 🌸 allow you to own your own data and it’s just getting smoother and more features every week it feels.

Can’t wait to see how it develops, if you’ve never ran a beta app, I would highly recommend this one for the fun!

Wanted to challenge myself this year and write more, and had time to think about friendships in general. Here are some of my thoughts.

On the topic of friendship and making friends: If you are someone who struggles to keep friendships going or making friends, regardless of your age category, this note may help you. First, there is nothing wrong with having few good real friends and not being part of a large group. There could be a ton of reasons why you struggle with maintaining friendships or creating new ones, e.g., constantly moving from place to place, not having enough free time to maintain relationships, or not finding common interests and diverse enough backgrounds to stay engaged.

In my experience, all friendships start with trust. You need to either be the one making the first step (which comes with risks), or, ideally, both of you extend a "token of trust" to each other. Once you have this "bridge of trust" in place, you can work on it together to build it further. As long as you are able to maintain the trust between each other and are able to "test" the trust and confirm it from time to time, you should be good.

Friends should be people with whom you can share bad and good news, and be able to reciprocate without reservations. If you find yourself drained and at a low energy state, your friendship should be able to help you recharge. If you are not able to recharge, then perhaps the friendship is not mutually beneficial and being reciprocated.

One more aspect of a good friendship is selflessness. When you "give," you should never expect anything in return, and your expectations should be adjusted accordingly. Ideally, this will work well when your friendship is in good health and both of you are of the same mind.

Lastly, to find new friends, you should be able to put yourself out there and step out of your comfort zone. It's OK if it is uncomfortable at times or feels awkward or embarrassing. If your goal is to make more meaningful connections in life and find like-minded individuals, then you'll have to also work on yourself to be able to achieve it.

In the end, there is nothing wrong with having only a few friends (or none if that is your thing) and enjoying their company; not everyone has to be well connected or surrounded by a lot of friends. You do you, and make your own path in life. 🫡🫂(we still love you for what you are)

You couldn’t have said it better!

Trust and trials in the relationship are vital. You hit the nail on he head with the reciprocated feeling element.

Last year, I came to the understanding that I was seeing a Venn diagram appear mentally with friends on one side and family on the other, this intersection kept me wondering if they even intersected at all. Conversations, trials, and trust lead to a tremendous outcome for that question.

Regular check-in’s are usually the hardest part because people take it personal, they don’t see that it’s of mutual effort for the relationship to flourish. They act to their detriment, rather than providing the trust needed to build that bridge.

I would only add it’s OK to be friends with your family. Just make sure you know what kind of friends you let into your life. 🫂

GM

I run my s9’s at 700-900w and still get pretty close to peak performance with Braiins.

Did you try flashing the OS?

GM time for coffee and filming