I've used Breez which I liked, and I'm trying out Phoenix at the moment, but haven't really used it properly. To be honest I haven't found many ways to use lightning much before here.

Does that mean I have like 19 nodes that relay my posts and relay others' posts to me? Is 19 the default? And you can pay to add private relays that might have more users etc?

I'll go one further, what are relays? Bit of a noob here trying to work out how all this works!

Why is the number of pending tx so much lower on this than on mempool.space ?

SBF jail wen?

Yepper

Yup