Solid life advice

Great point guys!

In this particular case I’m for sure not being vindictive but want to state my truth so I don’t secretly hold grudges.

My concern here is that I don’t want to put so much self importance and give off vibe that I’m center of the universe - it’s not about that.

I also don’t know if that would make it an unnecessary big deal that can hurt me down the line.

I’m torn.

Wow it’s amazing, thank you!!

How do you tell the difference between standing up for yourself and being petty?

The territory of truth is extremely messy.

”周遭再冰不觉冷 偏体鳞伤却不疼 还庆幸习惯了痛”

Don’t doubt yourself.

Yeah, it’s only natural. But on avg. it’s a hardworking area of the world!’

These examples are all Chinese and I’m Chinese.

Chinese people are so hardworking and diligent in general, on avg. on a global scale haha. But I’m probably biased 😅

Asian people’s work ethic in general is scary.

I can send out an outreach message past 11pm and get an instant reply 😱 it’s not a single case!

Well - there’s also me sending out these messages at 11pm, I’m probably only the same workaholic.

Funny how life works, there’s no such thing as balance. You get bear market and bull market work life, there’s almost no in between 😅

Also lost 12 pounds since last time he saw me for exactly those reasons!

I’ve been living my own life and away from home for 8+ years.

This time I came back my dad said I look the best out of all these times I came back for family time.

Little did he know the secret of looking well and good was unemployment 😂

“What’s the self, really?

It’s not the self in our own eyes. It’s not the self in others’ eyes.

It’s the others in our own eyes. That’s the self.”

The world needs more oneness

Everyone that you've ever met (& will never meet) is merely yourself in a parallel universe. Act accordingly.

In a time when failure isn’t an option.

Thank you for the kind words!! 🫂🧡

If I get through these next few months successfully I’ll be fricking proud of myself.

It’s not necessarily arrogance.

People need to walk their own path even tho that’s not the “right path”. But hey that’s called destiny and everyone has that. Their own problem sets in life.

I’m simply hoping that I get to live a path of my own, perfection is not what I’m going after. I do hope to minimize regrets on this path.

🧡 i hope you’ve healed and grown stronger from this.

I don’t have complains and I’m very grateful for this way of mine.

It simply makes me sentimental at times