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I suppose that is accurate with your mother, though a lot of people reject their parents ideals.

I propose that nagging does not work in romantic relationships.

Yes that is better phrasing

But nagging is generally a terrible tactic

Rarely gets either person to what they really want

I think a quiet reason that many men avoid marrying their long term partners is that the men do not want to go through the wedding ordeal and the realities that comes with it - because for many men it means facing the facts that they have VERY FEW friends, especially compared to the woman.

While my wife had to agonize about which few friends to put in the wedding party, I had few options for groomsmen beyond my brothers, whom I am not even very close with. I see this in other weddings - the whole thing is sad and painful and forces the men to face the fact they are mostly ALONE on the world, except for the one woman who is marrying them, and the men have nobody to blame but themselves.

#responsibility

She nags because she expects more from you

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Attention is her currency.

Attention gives her power.

If she does not get your attention,

and is not yet obsessed with you,

she may seek it elsewhere.

#women #attention

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Her brain is her largest sex organ.

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PG-13 is the way to access her brain and get her engine purring. PG-13 is way better than coming on too strong too fast. This where a lot of guys lose it in the dating scene.

Guys think showing her a penis, out of the blue, will get her excited - when the reality is that timing matters. An unsolicited penis is disgusting but a PG-13 build up will leave her asking for more.

#women

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She wants to be pampered and treated like a princess, and you have still hold her accountable to her responsibilities. If she is treated only like a queen and never like a handmaiden, she will think she is the authority, thus killing any sexual attraction.

#attraction

This goes for live interactions, not just random internet followers - interesting women will behave badly if you do not set boundaries. Give the opportunity, she will run roughshod over you.

Have firm boundaries, have an interesting life, take care of yourself, and she will want to be a part of it.

#women #attraction #dating

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If the bed is 2.5 feet tall, my wife’s crotch would have to be 3ft off the ground to make this work

Maybe if she is 7 feet tall

"If you truly love someone, there is no reason to cheat. Love is built on trust, respect, and commitment. Cheating, in any form, destroys that foundation. There’s no such thing as "micro-cheating" because any act of disloyalty, no matter how small, breaks the trust in a relationship.

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If you're not happy or fulfilled, it's better to be honest and communicate rather than hurt the person you claim to love. Cheating is a choice, not a mistake. True love doesn't need lies or deceit—it requires honesty, respect, and dedication.

In the end, if you truly value someone, you wouldn't risk losing them for a moment of temptation. Respect the relationship, and if it’s not working, walk away before causing harm."

Not my writing but I agree 💯!

#MyBeliefs

Men cheat because they have given up responsibility and leadership and now their wives are unattracted to them.

Women cheat because their husbands have given up the roles of responsibility and leadership and now they are unattractive.

The solution is for men to take responsibility and provide leadership. Stop acting like a child.

#responsibility #leadership

The whole reason your wife wants you to Work From Home is that you can have sex with her at random times during the workday.

If you are not taking advantage of this, you are missing the point.

#relationships