Sending an/other to do the job is just like grabbing a handle of control. You don't have real power nor authority over it, just control which is conditioned by exterior forces. The more you hold on to it, moving around the changing factors, the weaker it gets you. You either do it or you don't. Otherwise the doing and the having are not in alignment and when lacking stability, things can only move on the horizontal. This is why without moral/ethical values, nothing durable can be achieved.
To be a rock and not to roll
We are the Temple's stones
There is a soul frequency, a body frequency, a mind frequency. When this align we are tuned to the cosmic song
Of course is just an interpretation, but it brings forth some interesting facts.
Sticking to certain frequencies that operate in the lower aspects of our body just blocks receiving in a higher dimension. Chosing a certain environment means letting go of people who seek something different than that.
Beecause 
And then I moved to Portugal which retains 40 euros out of my 100 euros productivity bonus. From that day I started I'll deducting 40% of my productivity too. No money, no hard feelings.
In Romania it truly feels like people support the system from their pocket, while the land rich in resources supports foreign "investors' " capitalistic game. So many obligations to the state yet, life is so hard people literally struggle with having food on the table.
Do not let fear tell the story, but acknowledge it, hold space for it, send compassion to it.
Because sometimes we hit bad notes