#financialeducation #brokeparents
1. Understand Assets vs. Liabilities
• Assets = things that put money in your pocket
• Liabilities = things that take money out
Poor families often don’t teach this.
Wealthy families prioritize buying income-generating assets.
Every path to wealth starts with owning the right assets.
2. You're not entitled to anything
Rich parents teach their kids that success is earned not inherited.
They instil a strong work ethic, showing wealth must be grown and protected.
Their kids learn that performance matters not just privilege.
3. Money is a powerful tool
The poor often see money as “evil” or a cause of problems.
The rich view money as a tool to build, grow, and navigate life.
They use money to buy:
• Stocks
• Real estate
• Businesses
And those assets bring in more money unlocking freedom.
4. Build relationships that matter
Wealthy parents emphasize social skills and networking.
Their kids learn to:
• Make valuable connections
• Collaborate
• Get exposed to bigger opportunities
Your network often becomes your net worth.
5. Master the difference between good and bad debt
Poor people borrow for wants.
Rich people borrow for returns.
Bad debt: Phones, vacations, luxury cars
Good debt: Real estate, investments, business growth
Used right, debt becomes leverage.
6. Solve real problems to make money
Want to get rich? Fix a problem people care about.
Money flows to solutions.
The bigger the problem you solve, the more money you make.
Simple as that.
7. Money doesn’t define your character
Money isn’t evil it’s neutral.
It just amplifies who you already are.
If you’re kind, it lets you do more good.
If you’re greedy, it magnifies that too.
Wealth is a magnifier, not a personality changer.
8. Don’t chase quick wins
True wealth is built over years — not weeks.
Rich families focus on long-term goals:
• 5-year plans
• 10-year visions
• Legacy building
Delayed gratification is a superpower.
9. Focus on increasing income, not just cutting costs
Poor people obsess over saving pennies.
The rich focus on earning more dollars.
Yes, budgeting is useful
But income growth + asset building are what scales your wealth.
That’s where compounding starts to work in your Favor.
10. Make money work for you
Poor people trade time for money and then spend it.
The rich invest money to buy back time and earn more passively.
Your goal: Build a system where money works harder than you do.
When parents handle stress and difficult situations calmly, children learn to do the same. If parents frequently react with anger or anxiety, children are more likely to adopt those behaviors.
Calm parents provide a model for healthy emotional regulation and create a sense of security and stability. Children thrive when they feel safe and protected.
Constant parental stress and volatility can create anxiety and insecurity in children, while calm parents are better able to communicate effectively, as they can listen attentively, respond thoughtfully and resolve conflicts peacefully. This open and respectful communication strengthens the parent-child bond.
A calm home environment minimizes children's exposure to unnecessary stress, and allows for more consistent and effective discipline, as calm parents can set clear boundaries and enforce them fairly, which helps children learn appropriate behavior.
#parenting #fatherhood
I'm not sure, but might be from Dr Daniel Amen. Hope it helps. Lmk if you find out.
THE BEST WAY TO BE A FATHER
1. BE THERE:
✅The biggest failure as a man is having a child and rejecting that child, abdicating your responsibility as a father, being quick to have sex and quicker to run away when pregnancy comes. Too many children are hurting because of a father who is alive but has disowned them, it makes the child grow feeling unwanted and unloved, it dents the child's self esteem and some become adults with a constant feeling of rejection. If you have a child, be there; no matter how bad things are between you and the mother of the child- be there; you owe it to your young one.
2. TELL YOUR DAUGHTER SHE IS BEAUTIFUL:
✅The first man to compliment a girl should be her father, the first man to take note of her beauty should be her dad. A girl should grow up convinced she is beautiful and feeling like a king's princess that even when boys and men try to woo her saying she's beautiful she responds "I know, dad has been telling me that for years". Too many girls fall for preying men because they are desperately looking for affection, they have daddy issues and had no encounter with a male figure who genuinely loved them before the preying men noticed their boobs and hips; so they fall prey to men who use compliments and give attention as a carrot to lure to a trap that leads to hurt.
3. MODEL MANHOOD TO THE SONS:
✅A boy comes into the world as a naive student who will absorb what the male figures around him teach. He can be taught the right way to be a man or be misled. He learns how to treat females whether good or bad from the men around him. He should learn proper manhood from the father. The father should model how best to treat and respect females, how to love as a man, how to work, how to provide, how to be a man of integrity.
4. EAT WITH YOUR FAMILY:
✅ Food brings people together, one of the greatest show of security to a child is when the dad makes time to share meals.
5. BE THE SPIRITUAL LEADER:
✅ Help her to find ways to be mindful.
6. LISTEN:
✅ A child with a father who loves to listen grows in confidence. When a child feels he/she can tell daddy anything, no battle will intimidate the child. Sometimes you don't have to say much, just sit back and pay attention. The first need of love is to be listened to, to be treated like how you feel and what you have to say is important.
7. GIVE ADVICE:
✅ A father should be there to offer counsel whether solicited or not. Children cry for direction. As a father, be involved in the process of the seeking of answers. Be open about your mistakes, your childhood, your lessons and your expectations of the child. Give advice not as a dictator whose word is final lest you isolate yourself from the child because the child can do what you ask yet fear and despise you; but help the child understand why you are insisting on your way, help the child understand your reasons, train your child to think through solutions; this way, he/ she will grow up with the self-sufficient capacity of making sound and wise decisions.
8. BE PRESENT:
✅ The father's presence should be felt, too many fathers have left parenting to the wife. The best test of love is the giving of time, do not fail this test.
9. REFRAIN FROM THROWING MONEY AT THE PROBLEM:
✅ No matter how rich you are, fatherhood is not done by throwing money at issues. When your child complains of your absence, when problems arise, when dealing with your child becomes a handful and you feel you have no time; don't use money to silence or appease the child. Fatherhood is a hands on approach, it will not be easy but its fruits are sweet. Don't escape through your ATM. Material things can contain a child for a while, but soon the child will look around and see empty things but no love from dad.
10. SHOW UP:
✅ Make daddy appearances; show up at your child's sports day, birthday, parent's day, graduation or any other special day. Make random visits to what your child cares alot about even if for a few minutes. Meet your child's friends briefly, let your child feel daddy's loving eyes are watching over me.
#parenting #fatherhood
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Children are not simply smaller versions of ourselves but complex, evolving beings—each a universe of emotions, thoughts, and dreams waiting to unfold. They are the very seeds of our tomorrow, the living embodiment of hope, and the untamed potential that whispers promises of a future yet unwritten.
We’ve all heard the saying, “Children are like sponges, soaking up everything around them.” But have you ever stopped to think about what exactly they’re absorbing? It’s not just facts and figures; it’s emotions, attitudes, and a deep-seated understanding of the world around them.
Love is a Verb
Children don’t need a perfect family; they need a loving one. It’s the quality of the relationships, not the quantity of the parents, that matters. When we prioritize our children’s happiness over our own, we unintentionally teach them that love is conditional—a heavy burden to bear.
Honesty is the Best Policy
It’s tempting to shield our children from the harsh realities of life, but doing so only sets them up for disappointment later on. When we’re honest with them, even about difficult topics, we teach them that they can trust us.
Why Do Kids Say “Thank You”?
Ever wondered why a toddler, barely able to form a full sentence, can rattle off a polite “thank you”? It’s not because we’ve drilled it into them—it’s because they’ve observed us. They’ve seen us express gratitude and are mirroring that behavior. It’s a beautiful testament to their ability to learn and connect with others.
The Power of Curiosity
Forcing a child to read is like trying to make a flower bloom before its time—it just doesn’t work. Instead, let their curiosity be your guide. If they see you engrossed in a book, they’ll naturally want to know what all the fuss is about.
The Myth of the “Hyper” Child
A child full of energy is not a child who needs medication—they need outlets for that energy! Instead of trying to calm them down, let’s encourage them to explore, to play, and to be kids.
Seeing is Believing
Children are incredibly perceptive. They can sense when something is wrong, even if we try to hide it. So instead of putting on a happy face, let’s be real with them. Let them know that it’s okay to feel sad sometimes.
Children are more than just tiny humans; they’re our future. The way we treat them now will shape the adults they become. Let’s honor their innate curiosity, boundless energy, and capacity for love.
Inside every child lies a unique spark of brilliance—a constellation of talents and passions waiting to shine. Our role as parents, educators, and mentors is not to mold them into cookie-cutter versions of ourselves but to ignite that spark within. This means guiding their energy with gentle hands, helping them channel their enthusiasm into meaningful pursuits, and nurturing a love of learning that fuels their journey of self-discovery. We must create an environment where they feel safe to explore, experiment, stumble, and rise again—stronger and wiser.
For in that freedom lies the true potential for greatness.
#parenting #fatherhood #childcare
NEVER, NEVER, EVER CUT A CHILD'S WINGS...
1. "My hands are small, and that's why I spill the milk even when I don’t want to."
2. "My legs are short. Please wait for me and walk slower so I can keep up with you."
3. "Don't hit my hands when I touch something colorful—I just want to learn."
4. "Please look at me when I'm talking to you so I know you're listening."
5. "My feelings are still tender. Please don’t scold me all day. Let me make mistakes without making me feel stupid."
6. "Don't expect the bed I make or the drawing I paint to be perfect. Love me for trying my best."
7. "Remember, I’m a child, not a small adult. Sometimes I don’t understand what you’re saying."
8. "I love you so much. Please love me for who I am, not just for what I do."
9. "Don't reject me when you're upset with me. If I come to give you a kiss, it’s because I feel alone, abandoned, and afraid."
10. "When you yell at me, I get scared. Please explain what I’ve done wrong."
11. "Don’t be angry when the night falls, and the dark feels scary. When I wake up and call you, your hug is the only thing that gives me peace."
12. "When we go to the store, don't let go of my hand. I feel like I’ll get lost and you’ll never find me."
13. "I feel really sad when you argue. Sometimes I think it’s my fault, and my stomach tightens because I don’t know what to do."
14. "I often see you hugging and caressing my brother. Do you love him more than me? Maybe because he’s cuter or smarter? But what about me... am I not your child too?"
15. "You scolded me harshly when I broke my favorite toy, and even more when I cried about it. I was already sad—I didn’t do it on purpose. Now I’ve lost it forever."
16. "You got upset because I got dirty while playing. But the feeling of mud on my feet was so wonderful, and the afternoon was so lovely. I wish I knew how to wash my clothes by myself."
17. "Today, you weren’t feeling well, and I got really worried. I tried to cheer you up with my games and stories. What would I do if something happened to you?"
18. "I’m scared of hell, and I don’t even know what it is... but I think it must be as terrible as being without you."
19. "Even though I had fun staying with my uncles, I missed you so much the whole week. I wish parents never had vacations away from their children."
20. "I’m so lucky! Out of all the children in the world, you chose me."
As adults, we often forget what it was like to be a child—what hurt us, what scared us, what made us feel loved. Sometimes, children say these things out loud; other times, they only think them silently.
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Teach these 40 phrases to your sons and
daughters so they can be more resilient, successful, and confident in life.
1. Where there's a will, there's a way.
2. Good manners don't cost anything.
3. Always ask. They can only say no.
4. You're not marrying one; you're marrying the whole family.
5. Find the good in everybody.
6. Don't cry before you try.
7. There are no stupid questions, only stupid answers.
8. Pretty is as pretty does.
9. Treat others as you would like to be treated.
10. You can't control what others do, only your own reactions.
11. Don't buy what you can't afford.
12. Remember that things don’t make you happy, people do.
13. You catch more flies with honey than with vinegar.
14. Two wrongs don't make a right.
15. Watch what you step in.
16. Cow turds are a cattlemen's dollar signs. It all depends on how you look at it.
17. Teamwork makes the dream work.
18. Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.
19. What we think determines what happens to us, so if we want to change our lives, we need to stretch our minds.
20. Fair? The fair is two weeks in the fall.
21. One man's trash is another man's treasure.
22. The greatest day in your life is when you take total responsibility for your attitudes. That's the day you truly grow up.
23. True freedom is understanding that we have a choice in who and what we allow to have power over us.
24. You're only as old as you feel.
25. A rolling stone gathers no moss.
26. Early to bed and early to rise makes you healthy, wealthy, and wise.
27. Happiness is not by chance but by choice.
28. If you don’t like the road you’re walking, start paving another one.
29. A rising tide lifts all boats.
30. Don't judge a book by its cover.
31. You’re braver than you believe, and stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think.
32. The early bird catches the worm.
33. Each day comes bearing its gifts. Untie the ribbon.
34. Expecting the world to treat you fairly because you are a good person is a little like expecting the bull not to attack you because you are a vegetarian.
35. Confession is good for the soul.
36. You can't make an omelet without breaking a few eggs.
37. The grass is greener where you water it.
38. The greatest glory in living lies not in never failing, but in rising every time we fail.
39. There is no single recipe for success. But there is one essential ingredient: Passion.
40. Never lose hope. And never underestimate the power of prayer.
