🤪 that’s true! 🤖
Thank you 💗 it means a lot.
lol I don’t think GPT can think like a woman yet, but maybe 🤷♀️
lol ask it to make you a list of your ideal parter, I am sure it won’t give you a list like mine. Well unless you feed it my list and then ask, but without it seeing my list and the way it’s structured, no way.
Facts
I'm slowly coming to believe nostr:npub14yf4yasnqgpkzjrzhysshglf82e8nkp8r9sn5hzqu4n244k3avtshhwpyu is some sort of experimental AI or something. Long posts filled with details, bullets, human touch, consistently interesting takes, super active, ...
Wassup?
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Actually now that I’m looking back, I see some mistakes in spacing 🤯
🤦♀️ I think an AI would have spaced everything perfectly. But I’m flattered that you think I’m an AI 😍
I'm slowly coming to believe nostr:npub14yf4yasnqgpkzjrzhysshglf82e8nkp8r9sn5hzqu4n244k3avtshhwpyu is some sort of experimental AI or something. Long posts filled with details, bullets, human touch, consistently interesting takes, super active, ...
Wassup?
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😂 you are not the first to think this, but if you knew any of my ex boyfriends they would tell you it was a negative side of mine 🤦♀️
It’s really hard for me to get my thoughts out in just a few words and my brain always makes lists. I have a small OCD 🤷♀️
I have always been told, “can you just summarize your thoughts” and then I feel sad because that was my summarized thought 😂
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Me too 😅
😂😂😂👏🥂
Or wait maybe you were commenting on the blond comment lol 😂🤷♀️
😂 my brain breaks everything down and makes lists 😂
That’s a basic quick post of what I look for when dating a man 🤷♀️
Yes, I noticed this.
I mean I can also break them down into a few groups (the men at least) … but over all very similar!
Oh wow, I never looked at it from that perspective. You are right, it would be much harder to say no to cake if you are offered a slice every now and then vs if there are many flavors of cake being offered to you every day. 🤯
Yeah 👏 you faithful men are actually experiencing a harder pass than a woman does.
Hahaaa well when looked at it from that perspective, it’s a fair assumption 🧐 😂
But I must say, I think quite a few men HERE (on Nostr today) would successfully check off most things on my list of my qualities and values I'd prioritize in a husband. And it's likely that numerous women here match the criteria you (and other men) might look for in a (future) wife, because our collective presence here indicates a shared mindset. As the nostr community grows and diversifies over time, I suspect you'll find that not every woman aligns with your ideal criteria.
Magnetization does play a role, in my opinion. Most of us on Nostr gravitate towards its ethos, establishing a baseline of shared interests and values. And within this vast sea of like-minded individuals, there are subgroups focusing on everything from freedom lovers who spend all day posting flowers to freedom lovers who engage in financial discussions. Case in point: Stella caught my attention and I've been following her since I laid eyes on her profile. Although she obviously wouldn't fit my "husband criteria", she's an interesting and engaging voice here that I enjoy following. And now, here you are with us, resonating with that same energy. ✨
In conclusion, I'm inclined towards your second theory: perhaps we are those old souls who once painted the bar scene with magic and adventure, and have now found our space on Nostr.
So am I.
Without her I'd literally end up a guy who metaphorically empties his own depth a bucket at a time, and lives just to be the best fuck of a random girls life before he disappears and gets a new burner phone.
That only works until you age out. Then, you probably do the same thing, except your pursuit is to be a homewrecker because the Narcissism in me would be so strong my hunt would be to see if I can get a woman to risk everything just for a night with me.
It's hawt. But has a shelf life.
nostr:npub1qfkcklnmes45z75y7y8dkud5yll8vp5eq5ysk9rmgqdxeasv8unsrfj6kq is bang on about dark triad traits in me. Hence, why she'll never understand the sacrifice it takes for a man (or woman) who possesses many of the physical and character traits prized by the heterosexual female as a mate, who is also plagued by a demon either himself.
It's a never ending Manichean battlefield just within myself. I feel high on myself because of this very important battle my soul continues to win. In a world where I witnessed people selling their soul at the dollar store just so they can watch 90 minute CGI distractions from who they are a couple years ago.
I deserve to reek of arrogance to everyone else losing the battle hour to hour.
That harnessing ability is the substance of my strength of character. Am I subtly flirtatious every now and then to achieve a single serving shot of serotonin now and again? Sure. I think it's harmless though most would probably disagree. But considering the actual battle I'm winning day in and day out - I dont care about what they might think.
Same goes for how much profanity I use. Lol. I'm a wolf of God. Does he condone it? Probably not. But considering the level of sin the bar is at and what's surrounding us? He doesn't need his lambs now. Most of them became empty sheep anyhow, he needs warriors. Imperfect wolves to do the things that need to be done that he's too good to do. That's the state of humanity right now imo
Well then we should send some love to your wife 🥂 she saved you from an empty life. She sounds like a good wife who was able to ground you, remind you of our worth beyond societal and internal pressures, and guide you to your true self. ✨
I deeply resonate with what you've shared. While my experience as a woman may be different in its details due to me some what following the society expects a woman to maintain a certain purity, holding us to standards that discourage us from exploring the promiscuous behavior of a one night stand. Nevertheless, I've been in situations where I've had to navigate the complexities of being highly sought after and wanting to keep this “egocentric” feeling, even if I don't act upon every opportunity.
I understand you and I agree with you that it is a struggle and a “sacrifice” for a man (or woman) who possesses many of the physical and character traits prized by the heterosexual female (or man) as a mate, to no take the offer every time it’s given on a platter. It might be even harder for a woman because we have WAY MORE offers each day than most men get in a week.
The internal battlefield you describe is something I think many of us face, though it may manifest differently. Just as you've witnessed individuals losing themselves to transient pleasures as a distraction, some giving their life away to watch 90 minutes of CGI to forget who they were, others giving their bodies to get on the cover of a magazine or to get a higher salary in order to become who they think they should be.
It's a struggle to balance the desires of the ego with the higher calling of the soul.
I must say, your acknowledgment of the imperfections and the continuous internal battle reflects a deep self-awareness, a quality that's commendable. I think it's essential for us to embrace our imperfections as they are what make us human. And I believe that it's through these struggles and battles that we truly understand our strength and purpose, winning these battles while married also shows that love wins over all things.
Lastly, I must commend your exceptional communication skills; it's truly an admirable quality. 👌
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Aww I’m happy you found each other 👩❤️👨💗