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cool, I wonder how close to the beach they'll venture?

I'm about an hour north of Philadelphia. Was up in Albany last weekend and learned they don't have wineberries up there.

any sitings from other regions?

I went back to the house I grew up at today. It's not far 40 minutes from where I live. I went to water some potted plants outside for my mom. It's down a long driveway in the woods were you can't see the neighbors. I love being there alone. I loved growing up there. While I was there I felt no inclination to want to "make a lot of money as an adult"

I didn't realize that to be in surroundings like that as an adult I would either have to do what my parents did which was buy property an hour from their parents where land was more affordable and build their own house (Not have it built, build it themselves). Or make a lot of money.

I'm on a trajectory thanks to Bitcoin to be able to live in a remote setting and not have to sacrifice being far from my family who I love. But in the mean time I live in a town. When I visit my moms property it makes my heart hurt when I leave because of how much It reminds me that I yearn to be at peace in the woods again. That when I'm their I feel content.

What a dope bragging right.

Lyn's tomb stone.

Wrote the first book to mention NOSTR

suck it nerds!

here he is again. Less suace more contemplative.

Thinking deeply

chose not to mow the lawn this year, the chickens keep a fair bit of it down, and in other places patches of bigger stuff like milkweed pokeweed, and this other tall bushy robust beauty I forgot the name of make a nice environment.

what a poorly installed skylight will do to your framing if left unchecked

There are people involved in the government who sometimes get to go around all of the bureaucratic nets and just do things.

I've been working on this project. where I'm tearing down 3/4 of an addition to build it back bigger and with a 15 foot wall, giving the interior a 10ft ceiling. It's been challenging as a first big build. I'm working by myself. bur I'm about to throw that house in a dumpster.

because it's an allready built addition the challenging part has been tearing it down in stages so I can keep it covered. there is a basement under it.

this is my dad's house and honestly he chooses to do.things the hard way a lot of the time.

Basically he had a builder look at it before me who was like. "yeah I'll tear it down to the foundation and built it for 180k"

I'm doing it for a lot less partly because I want the experience to gain confidence to do more projects. It's also more interestingly going to have about 2x the insulation air leak control as a "built to code" new addition would have.

in some or many ways someone in this position really doesn't need a bank account. as you described they are seeking financial autonomy, not a credit line or safe storage.

I met a handyman type person in the US once who didn't have a bank account. He just dealt in cash and paid in full for cash. he had some line like. "why so they can charge me fees and try to get me in debt?"

That is also my general outlook on how banks behave. but for those who may fall easy prey to debt it may be despite certain disadvantages to not having a bank account better

the problem with non autists who use sarcasm a lot is that they can hide behind false sarcasm if they get in trouble

yeah that's my scribbles to illustrate the squirrel game.

the S's do represent the squirrels.

I considered drawing long ovals with tails but my drawing skills are really bad. so I went with S's.

if Squirrel started with a K or an A I think I would have gone with the ovals with tails. it would have been too different from how a Squirrel is to have an A represent it.

that's great, it's seems so thoughtful.

I once got to watch four squirrels play King of the hill on a big oak tree for like 45 minutes.

the one at the top was the hardest to displace because the second one down had to defend its position by chasing off the squirrel below it while also trying to outmanouver the squirrel at the top to displace it.

they where all spread out on the tree like there was clear levels that they held and tried to get up to the next while still defending the squirrel from below.

it's a crude drawing but it looked like a game with rules.

Replying to Avatar Lyn Alden

Financial privacy isn’t always about the government or corporations. Sometimes it’s simply about peers. Here’s an anecdote.

In Egypt, people born into lower socioeconomic statuses often don’t have a lot of flexibility for their life path. It’s often largely set by family and tradition, especially for women. And so, it’s kind of the luck of the draw how constructive their family is.

In certain social circles, a girl is generally considered the responsibility of her father. If she dates, has sex, doesn’t wear hijab, etc, then it is considered to reflect badly on him.

Once she marries, responsibility over her is transferred to her husband. He will usually control the main income, he will often control the family finances even if she does have an income, and he will often control most major decisions. And divorce is structured in favor of men here. Initiating a divorce as a woman comes with more limitations and consequences.

Many fathers push their daughters to marry pretty early so that they can relieve themselves of responsibility for her, even if she’s not thrilled about the prospective husband. She can be pressured socially, economically, and sometimes even physically. And at that socioeconomic level, she likely isn’t fluent in other languages, likely has not been exposed to outside ideas very much, is likely surrounded by people who would take her father’s side against her, and so the direction and pressure from her family is mainly how she contextualizes her role in the world.

So in many cases, someone goes from a girl with little power to a wife with little power at a young age, and with limited economic, social, or legal recourse if it ends up not being a good path. A decent percentage of fathers and husbands are abusive, unfortunately. In theory there are safeguards against this, but in practice it’s easy to fall through the cracks.

I know a family that owns an apartment building in Cairo, and they employ a husband and wife as live-in assistants to oversee the property and their family, like a casual butler and maid basically. He cleans, runs errands, and provides security, while she cleans and cooks. The husband and wife come from a low socioeconomic background, and have both been working for the family for 15 years, and are heavily trusted. They make like $4k/year USD equivalent combined, plus receive free basic shelter and a used car.

The husband and wife do not have bank accounts, so they just save in physical Egyptian cash that quickly devalues. Inflation in Egypt hurts people like them the most. With their extended family, they also own a unit for themselves in an apartment building in a poor neighborhood. It’s an unfinished raw brick building that they don’t live in. Their extended family all contribute to the shared building structure and underlying small land lot, and they own their unit within the structure and can choose to invest in finishing it with electricity and plumbing and flooring and furniture to live in, or just leave it as an empty brick hull. Many remain unfinished like that indefinitely throughout Cairo; it’s basically treated as illiquid savings and optionality.

Anyway, one day when the wife was getting a raise from the family that employs her, she asked that her raise be kept private from her husband. She wanted to have autonomy over that portion; their combined income is otherwise mainly under his control. Her husband is by all accounts a nice guy, but that is the common way of doing things in their socioeconomic circle. A private raise would let her keep a tiny bit of pocket cash in her own control. One of the things she wanted to do with some of her own money was send a tiny bit each month to a family member that needed help. So the family agreed to keep her raise private.

As her pocket cash eventually grew a bit, the next challenge arose: how to keep it safe and secret while living in a 250 square foot living area with her husband and daughter. She went back to her employer and asked if she could keep her private savings with them as an informal bank. They agreed to do that for her as well.

As is the case for many people like her, even though she doesn’t have a bank account, she does have a smartphone. Over time, certain types of mobile wallets and their widespread adoption could improve her ability to save privately and in less debase-able ways, and that don’t rely on the particular helpfulness of her employer. And if not her, then maybe her daughter one day.

A shoutout to all the devs working on such wallets and their ease of use; there are certainly plenty of people in the world who could benefit from them!

is it the situation that they would not be able to.get a bank account or that it would be very difficult and their peers don't so they choose not to?