I think people choose how they feel

I suspected this was your angle

Fail

You lost me at “lived experience”…

After blocking/muting these people, do you find they are making new accounts to further antagonize you?

If nothing else, these posts have been awesome bait for people to add to my mute list. (to be clear, the responses, not OP)

So what happens when you mute someone? You don't see them, but can they still follow you? I am trying to get rid if someone with one brain cell, most likely a dormant cell. 😂😂😂

What's the solution? Do you have any ideas you can share?

I don't think projecting is what he wants..💦🍆😋

they always miss the point...

Here’s a little something for the guys…

Most of us (myself included) have a pretty strong shame response to having our privilege named. It can make us feel confused and powerless to find we have contributed, probably unknowingly, to the harm of others in our community.

The defensiveness that typically follows may come in a few forms:

1. Outright hostility and aggression

2. Minimizing counter-evidence

3. Demands for education

Each of these are an attempt to regain the kind of control and safety we usually feel as “normal”. We normally navigate the world feeling safe, understood, and likely to find some level of solidarity with others. This feeling of safety is part of what is meant by “privilege”.

We are far less likely to be subject to unprovoked harassment, threats, and de-humanization. When these things do occur they are less likely to conjure up a consistent, lifelong history of physical threats and/or attacks suffered by less-privileged people (usually at the hands of people who look/sound/identify like us).

I’m not saying that we haven’t or can’t suffer harm or experience trauma — far from it. But the defensiveness and coping strategies in response to trauma aren’t something a decentralized protocol is going to fix.

I’ve found talk therapy helpful. It’s not for everyone, but I want to encourage you find something that helps you feel fully human again. (hint: spewing hate speech online just because you can probably isn’t it)

For the men out here trying to do their inner work and lift others up, I’m grateful.

Love y’all

I don't think this is about "proof" at all, many of us are simply curious of the specifics of your experience. Need to ID the issue to try to find a solution.

Words of wisdom from Queen Marie nostr:note1ztp928tuc3pk3pglvgf7un9er9djz8nu59n30plne2mr0s0hscastw3dtj

Can you give an example of the harrassment or hate?

Are people sending inappropriate DMs?

Toxic masculinity again. Men should just be women and women should be lesbians, problem solved?

Toxic masculinity again. Men should just be women and women should be lesbians, problem solved?

Burned the roof of my mouth eating nostr fry

#foodstr

Yes I agree because I’ve found myself doing more of what I wanted when I was a teenager and it helps me “adult” if that makes sense lol

Why are child like activities so comforting as an adult? Does anyone know the science behind it lol

Good Lawd... Just had a very lengthy call with a tech friend about NOSTR. 😂🤓

He's coming!! 🥳