I came across a "deleted account" in my follows, someone who started on nostr over a year ago but gave up just recently. In their last post they said they'd genuinely tried but it just wasn't working out for them. However, when I checked their stats on nostr.band the results were unsurprising. They were not actively using nostr. They posted maybe 1 note a day avg., never zapped anyone (publicly at least), and only followed ~200 accounts. That is not "genuinely trying" to use any social network, including nostr. You get out what you put in with most things in life, and nostr is no different. It's ok to be a passive lurker, but if that's all you put in then you probably won't get much out of it. If you want to find depth of experience here, be present and active, and engage with people in meaningful ways using the features of the network that allow you to do so. You will make or break your own #nostr experience.

Buenos días Mallory ☕

Hi all!

My name is Meryl and I am a far from home native New Yorker who sings opera and messes with software and technology. Follow for mostly my life as an opera singer and the strange job of screaming for money.

Happy to be trying out a new social media!

#introductions #opera #newtonostr

"French press"

Yeah, I'm pickin' up what you're puttin' down. 😉😉

I was going to recommend the Technivorm Moccamaster.

Then I tapped "Show More" and realized I had clearly wandered into the wrong side of town.

Carry on, ladies. 😳

Thanks mallory. So not motorboating

Marie/babechain, i have a Q - Why do women like guys’ butts?

Is there something you fantasize about doing with the butts? Or do you just admire their supple rotundity?

What is the deal here

I have a date today at noon. Wish me luck.

#Datestr

Sweets.

GM!

This is Timothy yawning (and Jamima sleeping)

#grownostr

#introductions