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šŸ˜‚ awww this is such a funny and romantic dream - that foreign boy taking away their precious local girl. I like how very detailed your dream was down to the black pants, silk shirt! And so many elements - the local boy you have to fight against, the future mother in law who is not pleased, the cultures you are getting used to.

But now I so want to know, did you win the girl in the end ? :)
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Mike Dilger ā˜‘ļø 2y ago

The dream sequence in my head was very short, probably 15 seconds, but it had all that detail I described maybe not fleshed out like that, but that was the feeling I had. Definitely I was seen as unable to compete in the social game at even the beginner level, I was totally unskilled and totally foreign and looked down on. There was no progression of this story. I just woke up with this feeling that I'm totally ignorant of how other people see the world, and I've been terribly naive my entire life by being open and honest all the time, and maybe I should be more discreet or that I should consider my audience before I speak or something like that.

Sorry, maybe you wanted me to make up an intriguing story, and here I am being open and honest instead. See what I mean?

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pam 2y ago

Lol thatā€™s ok good sense of humour makes up for most things :) and nah, honesty is rare, men who can explain their thoughts even rarer - donā€™t loose both! I think being in a foreign land is not easy. I think asians or close tribal cultures are generally more subtle, and culturally donā€™t disrupt. Itā€™s not that they are not opinionated or nor aware, itā€™s just the way of life. Totally rooting for this forbidden love dream girl to work out for you! :)