Lol that’s ok good sense of humour makes up for most things :) and nah, honesty is rare, men who can explain their thoughts even rarer - don’t loose both! I think being in a foreign land is not easy. I think asians or close tribal cultures are generally more subtle, and culturally don’t disrupt. It’s not that they are not opinionated or nor aware, it’s just the way of life. Totally rooting for this forbidden love dream girl to work out for you! :)