I'm a newb to lightning and i approve this message. Lightning is confusing to understand. and the lack of support for essentials like "lightning address" needs to be fixed. Literally all lightning wallets need to have a send AND receive lightning address. https://lightningaddress.com/
LNurl need to be the standard.
Also even with the lightning address it still seems doesn't work 100% all the time. its good but just not quite there yet.
Overall i get the idea and its really exciting to see, just needs more polish.
Also anybody new to this stop fighting it and just get a wallet of satoshi rest of them are a real mess around. if you want to own your keys you can always just send your sats to a non custodial later.. Trust me i fought this until i figured it out as well.. easier to send sats than to have a non custodial lighting wallet that has a receivable LNurl.