You go on a blind date and she walks in, what do you do?

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Say hi, find out the story behind the face tats, then politely decline a second date. Face tats are a hard pass.

what if she says it was a bet she won back in the day, the bet paid off 21,000 coins

I'm not going into a relationship on the basis of money.

So... No. Besides, if her stack is that fat, I'm not gonna be the quality of person that she'd want, either.

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no man I’m trying to say that’s how deep her conviction is, let’s say 21k coins back then if someone is willing to give em out on a tattoo bet was maybe $300 usd, but she took the opportunity n showed conviction

No, that means she would be willing to defenesrate herself for way too little money. That's not the kind of person I want to build a life with.

beaves I’m exiting the chat looool I’m tryna say she didn’t see it as $300, she saw it as 1 bitcoin equals 1 bitcoin and the sheer amount that it was.

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Sure.

I'm not down with that. If that makes me less desirable, then, she's definitely not the one for me, nor I for her.

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[exits the chat]

I think the second half of your post contradicts the first half πŸ€”

I don't think it's contradictory.

There's way better choices than I, quite frankly. Not having to worry financially really does change one's priorities.

Your quality as a person is independent of how much money you have.

Your quality as a person is higher than you think.

If you only attempt to date women of equal or poorer means than you, you are still effectively entering into a relationship based on money.

The idea that a man must be needed instead of enjoyed and desired is a sad trap.

If she marries you because she needs you for money and then doesn’t need the money anymore, where are you then?

Divorced. πŸ™„

Money isn't everything, but... Bring unequally yoked IS a burden and one I don't take well to. That may make me unfit to be a husband and father. I'm leaning towards that being the case, for me.

Unequally yoked doesn’t refer to money.

No. But it can when it comes to effort put into the relationship, and that often shows in earnings and how one spends.

My in-laws have a pretty good rule for marriage: β€œBoth of you should give 60 and expect 40.β€œ Effort in a relationship is important. Part of that can be working to provide for the family, whether by earning money or not. Part of it can be spending responsibly.

None of this means that a relationship between someone who has or earns more and someone who has or earns less money is going to be a problem.

Being unequally yoked refers to being deeply involved with people who are working counter to God’s purpose. It’s not about contributing unequally to relationships or even inherently about marriage.

2 Corinthians 6:14-18

I've only only recently heard rat rule, but I do like it.

It's only a problem when expectations aren't met. But it can be a friction point if not clearly handled well

Yup. Unequally yoked is exactly what I meant. That includes finances.

I'm not trying to argue with you, just explain myself more. You're obviously a better judge of what works than I am. 😁

I dunno. That's awesome for her but I can't imagine waking up every day with STACK SATS screaming into my face 🀣

I gotta keep playing devils advocate here even if I myself wouldn’t as well 🀣🀣

ITS A GREAT REMINDER TO WAKE UP TO AND SEE EVERYWHERE!! 🀣

I still pass. stacking sats is already build in. It's like muscle memory. 🀣

Walk out.

winner! :zapstr:

The font seems to change on eye movement. That's a pretty cool tattoo technically speaking.