For sure, i don't lay blame anywhere, but there is a solution to those problems yet it seems that most aren't interested in building it because the people who can just seem to hand wave it with "just use Tor or run your own proxy server or whatever" seemingly without realizing that they just eliminated 99.935% of all their potential users and any chance of actually fixing the massive dependence on huge centralized server platforms for everything.

Its like the people who need it don't know what they need, and the people who know and can build it don't need to because they know how to do all the other super technical options. 🤔