It was a great night last night! But it didn't look that way at some points. It turned around because I kept my positive attitude and being open to what is.

If I just sat at the sideline like the good little girl the society has conditioned girls and women to be, nothing would have happened. I probably would only get the old creepy guy who tried to pull a pickup artist shit on me to ask me to dance and feeling pretty shitty and go home feeling sad. But I asked guys to dance, I accepted guys' invites I usually might have turned down for whatever reasons my little head created but not justified and I did my best to let it be.

Inhale, exhale.

It's true with dancing and it's true with life. I realized whenever I felt high on life, it's because I took the first step to make it happen.

Sure, good people come to me and good things pop up like a timely deliverance from the universe at times and it feels good when all that happens, but my message is this: don't wait at the sideline just because you're a woman!!