lol a lovely explanation :3
i don't think any of this is lame. i think it's why women are so amazing, inspiring, and attractive~!
many guys (myself included in the past) try to "figure it out," but there's really nothing to figure out... it's just something we should simply adore and be in awe of. and the idea of ultimately being subject to a woman's mood all day, every day, forever may seem terrifying, but (and i'll just speak for myself here) is so insanely hot lol
i just love how you expressed it here:
it's the things that feel effortless, but require constant effort.
the things that we don't notice, but require diligent attention.
women are just so brilliant <333