Yes, she's the prize.

Her worth determines the nature of the competition.

Her worth isn't determined in economic terms but neither is it intrinsic on account of being a female.

What she curates as her worth will determine what kind of men she attracts and therefore what kind of courtship challenge she gets to set..

It's hard to envisage this until you meet such a woman and they are really few and far between today.

I am abundantly blessed.

"A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies.

Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value.

She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life."

Proverbs 31

'An excellent wife is the crown of her husband, but she who brings shame is like rottenness in his bones".

Proverbs 12

"House and wealth are inherited from fathers, but a prudent wife is from the LORD".

Proverbs 19