You need to use the hex public key instead of the npub on phostrich. Use 6830c4094f42a138b333157c130a5353b4149cc683e2c18c6e004e22ff17c655 instead of nostr:npub1dqcvgz20g2sn3venz47pxzjn2w6pf8xxs03vrrrwqp8z9lchce2ssj9fsy

Also, you have way too many relays. No more than 5 should be fine.