since my mother died, I've been feeling everything that comes and one of the things I felt is that she's never going to die. I hope you feel the truth in his words, but, in the meantime, allow yourself to feel everything - you can be angry and frustrated and sad and everything that comes - just a reminder. and I'm here if you want to talk more about him or anything. sending you a warm hug!
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Thank you for your kind words. I will no doubt be fine, but my mother and her siblings are now just experiencing the loss of a parent for the first time at nearly the age of 59 and her oldest brother being 18 years her senior...
I hope that I can help her through what you've described.
I know you are there for her and that will be a lot. trust her and her siblings, it may be really really hard, but they can go through it. sending you another hug, because it's hard seeing our parents experiencing a parent's loss.