I believe it does exist. At one time, I thought I had found him but I was wrong. My ex wasn't either. Maybe I'll never find it. I’m in peace with that.
Discussion
Perhaps the most important thing is to find someone who values you, appreciates you, and gives you an equal place in their life. Someone who is already complete and wants to share their space in the world with you.
Someone who is already complete...that is so important! And it's often not seen that way. Nobody can make you "whole", you have to do it yourself.
The interesting thing is. That I would never have described my ex-husband as my soulmate. 🤔 Not even when we were at our best 🤣 Nevertheless, there is one person in my life who is that for me. We've known each other for many years. Grew up together, went to school together. Always shared a lot with each other. But we were never a couple. We now live far apart. Sometimes weeks go by without us speaking. Then we see each other or talk on the phone and everything is the same. We chat through the night. And what particularly touches me. We seem to sense when one needs the other. Sometimes even before we know it ourselves.