Do you think there is such a thing as a soul mate? 
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Absolutely sure. And he's a total cunt. I married way better than my soul mate.
I was never married to my soulmate too
Nope. But some partners are much much better than others.
A soulmate does not have to be the partner 🤔
Oh. 🤔
I didn't marry my soulmate
Also, I am not the best mate of my best mate.
Nope, but I do believe that’s an awfully nice picture. AND it doesn’t look like it was done by AI , which these days is rarer than finding a Fabergé egg on a Tesla assembly line.
The picture? Oh, thanks 🙏🏼 I took it with my iPhone. This is the forest less than 10 minutes from my house.
I believe whoever makes you the best version of yourself.. and you in them..
Business is the same..
Whoever gets you on your right path to your destiny
That's a beautiful thought. Then there are lots of different people who make you shine
I think there are so many different types of soul connections in the world
🫂 Yes, but you have to be open to it, be ready for these connections
Not in my lived experience in anyway, I’ve always been a very spiritual person on my life and have dealt with seeing things I didn’t want to my entire life …
I do realize that modern day, spirituality offers various theories, etc. and why I do respect everyone else’s theories. I can’t deny what my own life has taught me. It’s just it’s a lot of pain and I don’t know how to express it without trauma dumping. 🤣
Still, I know it’s worthy of others hearing parts of it. 🥰💯
I think that I was very open when I was young and quickly made connections with people. On very different levels. Then a lot of things happened. That made me closed off. But in recent years, I've gone back to being a (perhaps somewhat naive but) very approachable person. That feels good. I like being kind and being there for others
I think there are many of them
You met your or even many soulmates?
Honestly I don't know. I've been married before, but still not sure. My spirit feels most alive in the presence of my children, but I'm sure there are other kindred souls out there (prob on nostr 🤣)
My ex-husband was never my soulmate. But I also believe that there can be more than one. My children are definitely the three souls in my life that stand above everything else. Maybe a different kind of connection
I can agree with that, the Greeks have 5 words to try and describe love and that's still just the surface. There are many frequencies in life, who's to say one type is the only correct one.
I believe it does exist. At one time, I thought I had found him but I was wrong. My ex wasn't either. Maybe I'll never find it. I’m in peace with that.
Perhaps the most important thing is to find someone who values you, appreciates you, and gives you an equal place in their life. Someone who is already complete and wants to share their space in the world with you.
Someone who is already complete...that is so important! And it's often not seen that way. Nobody can make you "whole", you have to do it yourself.
The interesting thing is. That I would never have described my ex-husband as my soulmate. 🤔 Not even when we were at our best 🤣 Nevertheless, there is one person in my life who is that for me. We've known each other for many years. Grew up together, went to school together. Always shared a lot with each other. But we were never a couple. We now live far apart. Sometimes weeks go by without us speaking. Then we see each other or talk on the phone and everything is the same. We chat through the night. And what particularly touches me. We seem to sense when one needs the other. Sometimes even before we know it ourselves.
Maybe we are all soul mates. But I get what you're saying, and do think that there are people with special connections that transcend the physical.
🫂🥹connected souls
Prolly not but…I definitely think there are connections people can develop with one another that are deeper than we understand. I think those connections are just so deep it feels supernatural but it’s prolly just some bacteria poo that draws us to one another?
Oh, so it's all biology? Or physics?
salt to taste:
modern drivel...
implies having awakened soul in first place which is clearly a massive problem today.
arranged marriages were the norm in the majority of history... and they tended to last a lifetime as opposed to all the free will choices the moderns "get to" make, resulting in a lot of unhappiness apparently - +50% divorce rate...
all enterprises are best embarked upon on a solid foundation of shared goals and pragmatic BUSINESS-STYLE plans iterated in order to achieve common vision...
accomplishing such things together is where the love is found.
also, the modern woman is nearly completely unmarriageable as she has no vision, doesnt care if a man does, and will not submit to anything but the globohomo safety council diktats and other collectivist mewlings.
#exceptionprovestherule
I don’t know. What’s a soul mate? I definitely don’t think there’s only one person in the world that a person can fall in romantic love with. The longer-term, pair bonding sort of love is more a function of shared experiences and consistent support than it is of how special the match is. And even that kind of love isn’t indestructible.
Yes, relationships and love need time and shared experiences in order to grow and strengthen the bond. They need to be nurtured and cared for.
When I was younger, I naively believed what fiction told me about love: If two people fell in love intensely enough, the relationship would last until death. I have a different theory about long-term monogamous relationships now. I think they require three things:
1. A normal human conscience.
2. An adult mindset, meaning a habit of taking responsibility for getting what one wants, and the ability to regulate one's emotions.
3. A willingness to support and contribute to the other person's goals, and to shared goals.
Even if all of these conditions are met, the relationship can still end. What do you think?
if you believe yes, if not then …
i believe it & it can be in form of relation.
Yes, it almost seems to me that it is even a little easier to maintain this connection in the form of a friendship. Although it must be wonderful to be together with a soulmate in a romantic way.
Not really, but some couples can be much more compatible than others.
Perhaps. But if so, there are more than one. I don’t believe in the concept of “The One” Soulmate.