A lot of middle-aged husbands are sexual squatters.

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Never heard that one before.

I looked it up on urban dictionary, but I’m not sure that’s what you mean πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

(Either actual squatting or someone who overstays their welcome afterwards. But if he’s married…)

Occupying prime real estate with no intention to put it to any constructive use.

Ah do you mean not having kids ?

Or sex.

Or dates.

Or anything.

Basically wasting her time. Got it

Just find it sort of ironic because I know so many older single guys looking for a wife and it's like,

Well, there are lots of guys with an attractive, fertile, pleasant wife they don't really want, anymore...

I wonder why these guys stay in those relationships though. If they don’t like them anymore, what’s the point ?

Oh, they like them. They like having a housekeeper and a cook, and it's nice having someone to talk to and go for a walk with, although I guess they could just replace them with a dog, or something.

They just can't be bothered to do any of the stuff men do with wives, specifically.

As far as I can tell, the women either leave or get a boyfriend, and the men are like, meh, whatever, bye, I'll be golfing.

Sounds depressing 🀷🏾

Yeah.

Some of these women are so beautiful. Stunning.

This seems odd. They enjoy them as maids but nothing more… Are these married men attracted to women ?

Yes. Seems to be hormonal or something.

Maybe they can't... You know... Do the deed, anymore, and aren't willing to offer an alternative program and some flowers.

Just speculating.

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So we’re talking about a big age difference

Wives tend to be younger.

One couple is 44f/54m and she's a stunner and so charming and hard-working.

I try to be all moralizing about it, but it's like, duuuuuuuuuude. How stupid do you have to be? Literally nothing else on the market that appealing. Idiot.

Sort of guy who parks a Ferrari in the ghetto.

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His standards are too high…also, he’s married πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

Well, he's alone with his hunting dogs, now, and the new guy looking very pleased with himself, so whatever.

I guess he has that companionship he was looking for πŸ€·πŸΎπŸ˜‚

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Could be also bored

Of sex or of sex with than particular woman?

Sex with their woman

Could be also bored of conversations and all the daily routine and it spills to boring bed activities

Yeah. Maybe.

You know what he said, "Show me a beautiful women and I'll show you the man who's tired of fucking her."

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We are pretty lazy monkeys. Only some stay curious. You need two curious monkeys to sustain it. Curious enough of each other. And working on the whole romance shebang πŸ’ƒπŸ•Ί

The secrets of romance right here:

2 curious monkeys to make it work πŸ˜‚

Reminds me of this quote:

β€œShow me a beautiful woman and I'll show you a man who's tired of sleeping with her”

Yes

Ha ha. Great minds think alike. πŸ˜‚

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ just saw it

My mom calls it manopause. πŸ˜‚

Men turn 50 and lose interest in the opposite sex as anything other than a cleaning lady and beer bringer.

manopause πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

These are the guys who are into the idea of cat-girls.

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What’s that ? Like a woman who enjoys platonic relationships?

Debating between curiosity or ignorance

I wanna know but also i don't

Exactly πŸΏπŸ‘€

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I made it up. πŸ˜‚

I figured πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

I was curious about your definition

"A lot" is a little vague. 😏

A surprising number.

Better?

Much better. Thanks for the clarification. Please consider ALL-CAPS for such a post next time.

Good point. πŸ€”

Missed a great opportunity for some ALL-CAPS.

Nevermind. Or repost it in a week or so. People tend to forget quickly nowadays.

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No. A squatter has no right to the property.

From the mouth of someone who was complaining about boring wives a couple months agoπŸ€¦β€β™‚οΈ

Here again you demonstrate an unhealthy belief in your ability to see into other people's lives.