That’s really profound. What made you judge yourself less harshly?
Discussion
I achieved some significant things and then I had a lot of cognitive dissonance around what I was telling myself in my head and what my life was like in reality.
Also becoming a father. I didn’t want my internal judgmental voice which I realized sounded suspiciously like my father and his mother to become the internal voice of my daughters.
So I had to fix it in myself so I didn’t transfer it down to the next generation.
Wow, respect my man. Generational trauma is hard to break. But let me tell you, you’re an inspiration.