Oh, you mean the relays should be configurable? Yeah, I agree, but that's what the arguing has been about, lately, as the clients seem to be dragging their feet on allowing that.
That would be the "broadcast" parameter, here:
wss://filter.nostr.wine/npub1m4ny6hjqzepn4rxknuq94c2gpqzr29ufkkw7ttcxyak7v43n6vvsajc2jl?broadcast=true&global=all