The state's assertion of parental primacy was the true abolition of private life. (Parens Patriae, in the states.) The family, the patriarchy, was the real bulwark against the total dominion of the modern state.
Demonizing the father and destroying the family opened up everything to their control.
Everything we are living through now is just them sweeping up the edges and finishing the job.
At some point we have to take it back. Get their grubby government hands away from our kids and out of our private lives.