Damn hadn't thought about brute force either. I definitely don't want to be brute forced, so I will not divide my seed in that way.
The reason for having family members do it is because I trust them enough not to collude. I am close enough with them that I know they wouldn't try to screw me like that. If I ever have doubts in the future I can just move my stash.
I'll look into unchained, but I would like to "keep it in the family" if I can. It's not only a recovery plan, but also a way for them to recover my coins if something were to happen to me. I'm sure unchained has that covered too, but this is also a good way for me to teach them something about Bitcoin.
My plan is to provide both of them with a sealed will/recovery document containing instructions on how to recover my Bitcoin together if needed. If the document were to get lost or stolen I would immediately move my coins and create a new setup. I will make it clear to them that if something happens to it they will need to let me know right away.
I guess I will do a 2 of 3 and have each of us hold a different key.