He's 4, cheers when it's mom's turn to put him down, whines when it's a daddy night. I don't take it personally just wish I had more time to understand him

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You will figure him out. It took us until he was 6-7 and we still mess it up. :)

Thanks wolf

Ps love the dual language of we / us

A huge part for me was that most times when him and I would struggle, it was because he was reflecting back to me the worst parts of myself. He’s so much like me, he learns my good/bad traits, and then I have to look in the mirror, accept that these are the parts I need to work on too.

That's deeper than the Bitcoin rabbit hole. I am still making progress on my inner onion layers. I shall use a mirror tonight.

It's one of the reasons I spend so much time in the mountains. No mirrors :)