Sad to hear this. Mutiny has been prime on what what is currently possible in Lightning on mobile. If they couldn't sustain it without going custodially, i doubt anyone can.

From an end user UX perspective we really have not progressed much further than 2019' nostr:nprofile1qqsvtnw4wdly0a2zdjw75fpszggja430hfa4x3ugdqtqdault2uks2spr9mhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuumwdae8gtnnda3kjctv9upjesmn (lite wallet with reliable Sent + custodial component for Receive, up to a limit)